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Hello everyone out there, I need your help. About a year ago I had a Tubal Reversal. The Dr. said that it went very well. After trying for so long, I am finally pregnant. My LMP was 3/2/2010 I am 100% sure of the date. That would make me 9 weeks, but yesterday(5/5/2010) for the first time I was able to go to the doctor to start my care. They did an u/s and the Dr. said that it measures 4 weeks and that she could't see anything like a fetus or a heart beat, she said that I was going to have a miscarriage. I can't understand why the dates are not coming together with my last LMP. Prior to this appt. I went to a center that gives free u/s and free pregnancy. I went on April 20, 2010, cause I was afraid of having an eptoic pregnancy because of my reversal, but they confirmed that I was ok and that they see a sac forming. At that time I would have been 6 weeks, but measured a sac of a 4 weeks. I am so scared, I am a basket case. I want this so bad. I just got married on April 17, 2010 and found out April 12, 2010 that we were finally having a baby. I can't understand if God gave me this miracle why is he going to take it away. Also I had my HCG done yesterday 5/5/2010, I have to go back again Friday the 7th for another u/s and blood work again. Anyone please tell me what they think about the dates not adding up with my LMP. I have had no bleeding or pain, just headaches on and off. I can't even fit comfortable in mt clothes and I am eat alot and taking my vitamins. I don't even drink or smoke. I am a healthy person just regret doing that Tubal 6 years ago. I believe that messed me up for any chances I have.    
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1017834 tn?1443014123
Thanks for your encouragement that's the samething I said I know the TR was a success I got pregnant but lost it but its ok I am trying again this month last day of ovulation so keep me in your prayers.
If you don't mind when did you get your TR done?



Baby Dust to You!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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1173537 tn?1326685805
Keep your chin up ladies. I know it's tough. I had my tubes tied at 23 and reversed 12 years later.  I was one of the lucky ones.  I conceived 3 months later and had a healthy baby.  I am now 5 weeks pregnant and am turning 40 next week.  The stress of a possible misscarriage is nerve wracking. I try not not to think about it.  The only good out of what you are going through is that your reversal's were a success. There are many that are not. Try to stay positive and that baby will come your way.  Don't beat yourself up because of the decision you made years ago. At the time it was what was best for you and for me too.  I thought I was done at two children who are now 20 and 16. Now I have a 5 year old and am due 1/6/10.

Blowing tons of baby dust your way!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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I can't believe we both had out TR done the same month and year. I hope we both get what we desire and want so bad. Your words gave me alittle hope.  Thank you again.
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1017834 tn?1443014123
I am 42 I had my TR JUNE OF 2009 I just had a miscarriage April 24th 2010.
I am trying again this month dr put me on clomid again I am not giving up cause now that I know it is possible I am going to keep trying God didn't bring me this far for nothing. So don't loose hope you have to go through something to get something you most desire I will keep you in my prayers.

Baby Dust to Ya!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Thanks you, and please do pray for me....
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377493 tn?1356502149
I am so very sorry you are going through this.  I too have been through this and I do understand how you feel.  Sadly it does sound like a loss.  Unfortunately this is not uncommon and many more women then most of us realize experience at least one loss during their baby making years.  The good news is that when you are ready chances are you can and will have a healthy pregnancy.  Experiencing one loss does not increase your odds of another.  And 39 is certainly not to old.  I just had my first a week before my 41st birthday.  I know hearing this is no consolation right now and I know this hurts.  Please know you are not alone and that the vast majority of us who have experienced miscarriage have gone on to have healthy pregnancies and babies.  Take care, you are in my thoughts.
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Thank you for your positive attitude. Please pray for me. This means so much to me and my husband, if you only knew him, you would understand me.
Thank you again.
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You just don't know how I feel at this point. I can't believe that I will loss the baby. I pray to god I don't. Please pray for me....and ask god not to take it from me after giving me this miracle.
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803938 tn?1403748253
Unfortunately it does look like you're having a miscarriage if the embryo is not growing :-( Sorry about that, it's very hard - I and others on this forum have been through the same thing. The HCG at this point is probably going down.

If it's a miscarriage you will mourn, but remember: getting pregnant once makes you more easily able to get pregnant again and to have a viable pregnancy! I too have a healthy lifestyle but I had 3 miscarriages before getting a long-term pregnancy at age 40/41 (I am about to deliver). Do stay hopeful for the future, your tube reversal worked well, you have very good chances to have a baby!

Good luck!
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1173196 tn?1292916490
I'm sorry you are suffering right now. There are women on here who know far more about this stuff than I do. I just wanted to say that 39 is not that old, but it  may take you a few attempts before you have a viable pregnancy because at 39, you have fewer healthy eggs than you used to.
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