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Not feeling very special lately

I thought being pregnant should be more exciting than this. This is my second pregnancy and I dont feel at all special. Its just hard to be excited when it feels like no one else cares. I dont think I felt this way with my first and now that Im having twins I thoughy more people would be fusing over me. My husband is hard to read. He says hes excited but rarely brings it up. No friends or family ask me how things are going. I feel very alone in this pregnancy. Im surr its hormonal but it just S U C K S! :`-(
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Guys are weird and dont express themselves well. My husband is not very sypathetic at times but Im just hangin in there. I am 21 weeks and and on my 4th, my youngest is 9. So I havent had any family support at all, where my other 3 my mom did everything she could, was even in the delivery room! Now, nothing. I am remarried, and my husband now wanted another child. So im dealing with this all alone. My husband just lost his job and im sure he is now stressed out even more. I am trying to focus on the postive cuz im very excited to have another child! Im just freaking out how we are going to afford it! We lost our home when my husband lost his job. So im working 12 hr shifts to cope with the loss..believe me I undeestand what it feels like being alone...cuz I cant express my worries to anyone cuz I dont want to upset my hubby who is already feeling bad...
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I SOOO know how you feel...  I've said things MANY times to my fiance. He says Yaa im excited blah blah blah. Almost NEVER shows much. I have to say ohhh feel this or that he almost NEVER touches my belly. I'm due in 13days he's the one who at first wanted this alot more then me.See what happens when I have her in the next few weeks...  Ever want to chat msg me :)
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