I hate the emphases put on dialating. Was dilated 3 for weeks before my first was due, she ended up a week late, 5 centimeters for almost 3 weeks with my second, he was 9 days late. My third I was hardly a centimeter deflated the week I was due, 2 days later, a day before she was due I went into labor with her. With everyone it just made me an emotional mess, and is not a very accurate measurement for oncoming labor. This time I won't even bother being checked.
Sorry to hear that....am 40 weeks pregnant and i havent dilated no even 1 cm....am frustrated too cause idk if ill give birth soon...