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377493 tn?1356502149

U/S results

Just back from my u/s.  Nothing was visible on abdominal, so they did transvaginal.  I am 7 weeks today, but little one is measuring only 5w3d. No cardiac activity.  They will repeat next week, but I know that means it's over for me.  Thank you for all your support and good wishes, but not meant to be this time.  I am grateful for my healthy little boy and we will try again for a sibling for him.  As those of you that have been through this with me before know, I will not be around for a bit.  I need to have a bit of a pity party, digest and grieve, then I will pick myself up and try again.  Just need a bit of time.  Thanks again for all your support, it means a great deal to me.  SSBD ladies!!!
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674725 tn?1367439630
Amanda,

So sorry to hear this - my heart hurts for you.  Its not "cold" at all what you feel - I can totally understand what you mean.  Ryder has great timing - he's going to keep you busier now that he's discovered his legs.  I'm picturing him running like that boy in "The Incredibles" and you chasing after him.... You're a tough chick, Amanda - I know you're going to have another baby and you'll be inspiring us all like you've always have.  Heal fast and hope you'll be back with happy news before you know it.  

big hugs  
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184342 tn?1282588750
Amanda,  I am so sorry to hear about this!  You are in my prayers and thoughts, and just keep kissing that little boy-  it will happen again,  I know it will!!  hugs!!!  xoxo
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1035252 tn?1427227833
I'm very sorry....but what a little angel Ryder is...I know you're healing right now and if there's anything I can do..lend an ear, a shoulder, etc...you have my number and ways to contact me so please feel free to.

you're such a strong woman..you really do remind me what it means to never give up and to be strong no matter what life hands you.
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1404364 tn?1289431561
so sorry to hear of your loss.  Give Ryder extra kisses!  Thinking of you.  :)
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961574 tn?1520648103
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mhv
I am sorry to hear your news, but will continue to have hope for this weeks u/s.  You just never know.
I started crying when you said that your son started walking this week.  Wow, just what God ordered, a distraction.  Give your little man Ryder a hug and know that someday soon he will have a sibling.

xo,
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127124 tn?1326735435
I am sorry this is happening again.   Thankfully you have Ryder and he is a wonderful blessing.  
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