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I just found out that I am not going to have a baby.  My hcg levels are dropping and the dr says I quill miscarry.  :(  I can't believe this is happening to me.  Someone please, I need words of support.
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I lost my first pregnancy at 9wks in Nov 2013 and let my body miscarry naturally. There was pressure from Dr to have d&c, but I wanted to avoid any unnecessary procedures. It is such a difficult time so do what you are comfortable with and trust that your body knows what it's doing. I recovered (physically) very quickly, within a week...mentally, it still hurts and I do get sad about the loss. I will always carry that experience with me, am now 31 wks pregnant with a girl. You will have a healthy, happy pregnancy, don't be hard on yourself! Thoughts are with you
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Thank you all :)
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Sorry for your loss I know the feeling I lost my first in Feb but am now 28 weeks. I would suggest letting the m/c happen naturally if possible as this has a quicker recovery period and you can start trying again sooner. x
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Thank you all for taking the time to message me.  Thanks for all your support and prayers.
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I'm  very sorry for your loss. I have also suffered miscarriages, 4 to be exact. Take time to grieve as you need. Know that there IS hope! I am currently pregnant with my 4th child. Your blessings can find you!!
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Praying for you .Keep the faith!I too had a miscarriage some years back. No matter how far along you are. The loss is still a loss. Keep a bible near & people that will comfort & inspire. I can't say when the comfort will come but it will in time.
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I have miscarried several times.  It's not easy.  You will always remember the pregnancy but don't let it stop you from trying again. After many disappointments I am currently 28 weeks pregnant.  Don't give up and don't be scared.  Wishing you the best.
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I'm so sorry hear that. I had a miscarriage a couple of years ago, but I'm 21 weeks today. It will happen.
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I'm so, so sorry. I've been there twice myself. Know that you are not alone. There are many of us here for you. :(
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Thank you.  I am 8 weeks 2 days.  I dont know if to just let it happen naturally or take the pills or do a d&c right now I'm just so lost.
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I'm so very sorry. I've lost two babies. One at four weeks and one at 13 weeks and is very heartbreaking. It's ok to cry and allow yourself plenty of time to grieve. Time does help to heal your heart. I pray that you'll be blessed again and that you'll have a healthy baby.
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Thank you all for your words of support.  I know God has a plan for all of us and a reason why this is happening it's just hurts and right now I dont understand why :(  I do cry but I'm feeling alone and depressed.
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I can understand what you're going through.  From my  past experience I can reassure you that time heals your pain and God is great he will send you the most beautiful blessing. Cry if you need to but don't bottle it up inside of you. Talk to those closer to you.  Remember you can always try. All things are possible you just got to belive. Stay close to your partner and both of you make sure you give the support needed. Best of luck!
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I am so sorry that your are going through this.
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Sorry to hear this hun! I don't know your pain, but i pray that god gives you speedy healing and that you are able to concieve and carry full term.
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I am very sorry for your loss. Give yourself time to grieve it's such a hard process. I conceived shortly after my loss and went on to have a healthy baby and I wish this for you as well. Best of luck hon..
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Hcg went from 52086 on Friday to 46878 on Sunday.
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