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Im 37 and this is my 3rd child after 12 years, i feel so down and out, i know its the hormones and also the fact that im old enough to know that pregnancy really isnt easy.  When your younger you see it as a breeze, but now i know too much and it scares me.  I love this baby already and dont want to lose it.  Totally need help calming myswlf down.
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So lilbabyboy are you habing two boys? DianeRN my prayers are with you. Just put your trust in god.
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Im 39 and pregnant with my 3rd, two girls 8&11yrs. Already had miscarriage in Feb. I am 7 weeks. I have diabetes now and old and overwieght. I have early scan today and so scared will be no heartbeat again....anybody can pray would really appreciate it.
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Omgtwins14 I'm also pregnant with twins my daughter will be 10 on Nov. 18th and my other daughter just turn 13. I'm a months away from birth.  Its a blessing but things and people change around you. The finances are rough but all we can do is keep moving forward our days will get better.
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And it has helped alot. Now she cant wait to find out the sex of the babies. I am the one feeling overwhelmed now. Im happy and feel blessed but at the same time i tell myself what the heck u doing??? Starting over and with twins...lots of praying mommies...thank you all for sharing
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I totally understand...i feel better to know that im not alone. You mommies get it! I have a 11 and 9 year old. Mychildrens father (divorced for 6 years) pasted away in march and in august i find out  pregnant from my fiance. It was hard for my daughter to accept it because we have been dealing with her dads death. They were very close. When she found out i was having twins she became depress. I did a lot of praying for my daughter it hurted me to see her shut down. The kids are recieving bereavement counseling help
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Wow yeah I'm starting over!!  that's what really freaks me out about it all.I don't wanna raise kids my whole life . I just got married in march 5 months later I'm pregnant tried to I messed up on my my days app and hear I am 38 with 24,21,20,18,& 8 yr old the only one at home is my 8yr old but I have grandchildren too my husband is 50 so I'm like what the hell I'm I doing but I trust in God I except my blessing I'm not crazy about kids after raising 5 by my self but I'm start a new my husband is  excited nervous too but we pray money is short its ugly but faith trumps it all cheer up its a blessing
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otally understand. my life has changed so much over the last year. I went from being married to getting divorced...From having a 19 and a 13 year old, to now having a new one on the way. I never had to worry about money in the past but being on maternity leave and having to depend on my childs father scares the life outta me. I have faith that things will work out but I'm just so ready to have this baby and get on with my life. Being in your thirties people, think you are a wealth of wisdom but we worry too just like everyone else. I spend a lot of time praying and trying NOT to stress out but I'm human and it gets to me. I know once I see my little one half of my fears will diminish and I feel a lot better....just counting down the days right now.
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Im with u. I am so not feeling it. This is my 4th...just had my son in 2013 and this was a totally surprise. Im 37 and i have a 11, 10 and 14 month old. I am totally scared. Plus the only on in the house work. BD in college so im letting him be daddy daycare but its just alot to think about. Everyone seems to think its going to be ok...i wish they could tell me how...bc **** i dont see it. I guess i will have to give it to the man above. Said all that to say...im with u sister...
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What scares you?
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Hopefully this lil vent helped you.....things will get better...
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