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A REALLY SAD FTM

Good morning everyone I'm a FTM and I'm 27wks I was happy when I found out I was pregnant, I was on top of the world I told my boyfriend and he was happy also as my pregnancy progress I become more bigger. me  and my boyfriend of four years started to fight every single day and he says a a lot of hurtful things to me like I'm a *****, ****,and  dump last Sunday I had an allergic reaction to something and I couldn't breath I had to go the hospital I call him and ask if he wanted to come with me he said no. I was **** but I couldn't overly excited myself so my mother took me if it wasn't for my mother idk were I would be without her. It's getting to the point were I have a lot of anxiety and crying every single day. And it's really taking a toll on me and I don't want anything to happen to my baby. I hate him so much I talk to him about it  but he continues.

Ps while I'm writing post early in the morning I'm crying hysterically cause he cause me out again
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If you have any close friends or are close with your family, lean on them. My fiance was not thrilled or supportive at first and I had a good friend and my mother that I spoke too regularly. As far as your boyfriend, try to ignore him and think of postive baby things. You can't be concerned with him and your baby. I know it's easier said than done but you need to focus on yourself.
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Keep your head up...your emotions are much different when you are pregnant. I bet if you ignore him and do what you feel like doing.. Don't reply to his calls and texts right away act like your busy...he will worry and come back... Good luck
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