The above is great advise I would add the book what to expect when your expecting is great they also have one for baby care and toddler years. I would also recommend going to classes if you can find something near you that sounds like it would be helpful.
hey this is my first also it helps to read alot i was given a book that lets you know what to expect every week and what you should be doing eating planing so it helped me am now 36 weeks and all is well so read as much as you can look up stuff on the net it helps alot and ask alot of questions when you go to doctor plus other mothers good luck hunnie.