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Alone and pregnant

10wks 2days pregnant and the father of my child does not want to have anything to do with the baby. This would be my second child, my first is now an extraordinary 6yo. My children will not have the same father and it saddens me to know that one of my children will have to grow up the way I did. I had the option to abort but I just couldn't . I'm not judging anyone but I just wasn't able to kill a baby that I feel god blessed me with no matter what the circumstances is. The current father has so far tried every trick in the book for me to abort my child to now even denying my baby. I'm hurt because this was my best friend, we were like two peas in a pod, each others shadow and now this. I can't control my emotions to know this is the person who left me... Overall I'm  happy and excited to stand firm on my decision to keep my baby hopefully I will have a girl and my son would have a sister and my family would be complete. Has anyone else ever been in this situation?
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Hello i went threw same thing it made me a stronger person. And i knew no matter what these two kids needed m3 more then anything good luck and just be strong
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Yes I have but you are a strong lady and God have Your back just pray and he is the one that will be missing out and I pray you have a girl you take  care and Congratulations and God bless
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I've never been thru the same situation and I'm sorry you have to go thru it but u did the right thing this baby is a blessing and I know God will be watching over you and your family and bless u in ways u have never known....hopefully the father will come around but if not you keep being the wonderful mother u are and everything else will fall in place :)
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I've never been in this situation. However I'm sorry your going through this.  You sound like a strong person. Stay strong for your babies and.god bless you and your family. You can do this without that jerk.
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