Am I wrong?

[Momtothesecondpower]

So I have a lot to say!!! My dad lives with this girl he has been with for three years and he gets drunk and decides to call his ex and hang out with her like every other month! His ex texted me and I did not text her back bc I do not want the drama in my life right now so a week later my dad shows up to a family picnic with her and she is like so did you change your number and I said no I just don't want the drama in my life it's weird he lives with another woman! My husband yelled at me the while way home for being rude he said he likes her and it's my dad's fault so am I wrong?  Also my husband and my neighbor got into a fight bc I told the neighbor to leave bc he was hitting on me and wouldn't so my husband punched him I. The face so they recently started talking again and the guy is still hitting on me then he comes over with one prostitute and is like ooo the ***** is so good blah blah heroine laced breast milk blah blah and then a week later comes over with a different prostutute qhi introduces herself as spring well do you ladies think it would be wrong to tell them both to stay the hell away from my house and my family?

[expecting6thbaby]

Tell them to go way. Nothing wrong with not wanting to talk to people and you don't have to be nice about it. I think it was rude for to call you.

[Momtothesecondpower]

Thank you ladies and jelarin I think you are right he is waiting for me to react

[jelarin]

I think it's fine that your husband punched the neighbor. Sad that the neighbor came back though. Just let your dad be stupid. Try not to give the neighbor any attention,.negative or positive. He's probably just trying to get a reaction out of you.

[mommybrandyozuna]

Sounds like u need to send them all on there wy! Ur dad should visit alone and ur nebior needs to find new friends! Ur husband sounds to nice and like a push over I would tell him to man up and handle business before I do it my way!

[mitch_14]

I would stay out of your dads business just be polite to them If you are around them it's between him and the other women. But I would never have a prostitute in or around my family you are in your full right to send them away.

[MamaFarles]

No you are not wrong on either one. I will say this, if you do threaten this man with a retaining order, it may make the situation worse. I see all the time in my line of work. You and your husband need to be on the same page... ask this neighbor to leave you alone but be tactful.  People do and say stupid things when feeling threaten.. handle it how you see best but last thing you need is the drama of an upset neighbor with a new born. Good luck mama

[patty1848]

First of all, u don't have to relate to your dad's exes if u don't want to. It's better that way. Your dad needs to understand that.
And no, it's not wrong kick people out of your life.
just be polite and tell this gross neighbor to stay away. Tell him, you have a lot going on with your baby coming and you want just positive things in your life and he needs to keep his distance and don't come back anymore.  If he does come back, threaten him with a restraining order.