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Okay so I'm 25 pregnant with my second child. I just got a divorce n this pregnancy was unexpected n def unplanned. I was on BC n used a condom when I got pregnant by this guy I've known for sa few years now. When I was married my husband n I tried for 3 years to get pregnant n I ended up only having a miscarriage. But now were divorced and I'm pregnant wit this other guys baby...but he doesn't seem remotely interested in my decision to keep the baby. Won't even talk to me. Please give me your honest opinion, do u think Im making a mistake for keeping this baby? Oh and my first sons bio father has also never been in involved, so this will be a second pregnancy I go through alone...n end up being a single mom of two..please what are ur thoughts?
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7945295 tn?1397658820
I'm right there with you on having my second baby alone. I feel bad for not being as excited and scared but I know that God has a plan. I thought about adoption but I'm keeping the baby. best of luck to you! stay strong you made it through the first time you'll be pro this time around :) big hugs!
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7945295 tn?1397658820
I'm right there with you on having my second baby alone. I feel bad for not being as excited and scared but I know that God has a plan. I thought about adoption but I'm keeping the baby. best of luck to you! stay strong you made it through the first time you'll be pro this time around :) big hugs!
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Im proud of u and I totally think you are doing the right thing. I would do the same thing. And once again, there is a guy that will be a better father than u can imagine.  Just wait. And be there for your babies
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You are not making a mistake. Babies are blessings! Do you have some kind of support network? Family or good friends? You will make it!
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I agree you tried for years to get pregnant again and although it happend when you didnt want it to and its not your plan this baby is something you dreamed about. Tey to enjoy it you will love this baby!
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1756475 tn?1330538713
I think that you are pregnant for a reason. It happens when it is supposed to happen.   Some day you'll meet a guy that accepts you and both your kids.  As long as your happy and the kids are being cared for that is all you can do.
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8529755 tn?1412629642
My sister is a single mom of two with both fathers not in the picture. She put herself through school and got a good job and she did it on her own with family help here and there with babysitting but she did it and I'm proud of her woman are the strongest people I know and what ever we need to do to manage we do it so either way you go you know you'll be doing the best for you and your family!
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