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I'm worried coz this is my 1st pregnancy

I'm 3 months pregnant, I'm only 48kg and my hubby is 98kg extremely muscular man. We runs a grocery shop and both of our working place is within a small boundary, which is the cashier. He's big and rough person and it happen twice that he turn around and accidentally hit my belly, he sweats a lot, he wipe sweats in his face with his arms aggressively  and whack my belly.  I was in knelt down in pain but it soon went off. Sometimes he'll get even clumsy when he's drunk. I'm worried. Help!
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Talk to him about being more careful. He will have to when the baby comes any way.  At 3 months the baby is still very protected behind your abdominal muscles. Did he feel guilty that he accidently hit you?
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Thanks. Yup he do felt guilty. But I'm scared he gets drunk sometimes(occasionally)
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Also talk to him about how he is when he is drunk. If he doesn't believe you, then film it.
He will learn to adjust, maybe get him a towel for wiping his sweat so he doesn't fling his asthma so wildly
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Oops. Should be arms...auto correct error
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