Needing some positive feedback

[Kinax3]

I went to the ER after having pains & heavy spotting & they told me i was 5 weeks 2 days. I was told that it wasn't a viable pregnancy. Went for a follow up, they said it may b too early to tell have some hope. Went back for blood work & ultrasound & they said my numbers went down & there wasn't much change with the baby. My dr gave me 2 options, to let the miscarriage happen naturally or let them take care of it. I made  3rd option to wait another week for another ultrasound. I should b a lil more than 8 weeks by then. This is my first pregnancy, what do u guys think?

[maw4389]

If your numbers are going down and your baby isn't growing, then I'm afraid your doctor may be right.

[Kinax3]

Thx for the positive feedback

[kittin_1988]

I  would wait I was told with both my daughter's the same thing an they were wrong they are now beautiful an ages 10 an 5

[Kinax3]

Thk u sooooo much! I have really been praying & hoping for someone who's been n my shoes to shine some light on this dim path. How did u stay calm?

[Kinax3]

Thx for the positive feedback

[Danilynn617]

Go with your gut! If u feel u should wait and see what happens do it, sometimes mothers intuition is the best

[RapunzelLove]

I really hoped a better ending :( take care

[drealove84]

Omg I'm so heartbroken for you!! I had a miscarriage at 14 weeks, 3 years ago. I felt so empty, and broken. We are pregnant with our rainbow baby 3 years later. We'd given up hope, but here we are. Grieve as much as you want. There is no timeline. We gave baby a name, and had her buried. It helped us heal. I really am so sorry! Hugs to you and your partner. I know it probably doesn't seem that way now, but you'll get your Rainbow baby too!

[leanne2011111]

So sorry to hear that, your in my thoughts.

[Kinax3]

Thk u all for the support, this pregnancy didn't survive but i appreciate u all

[MrsMartin26]

Unfortunately my story didn't have a positive outcome but I will share. I went for our 10 week dating ultrasound August 24th only to show a gestational sac and no fetal pole. I saw my doctor the next day who ordered serum HCG levels every other day for a week. Monday she told me my levels were dropping from 36,000 down to 18,000. I had to go to emergency to see the gynaecologist on call who gave me Misoprostol. I had major cramping that night but little bleeding. I saw the gynaecologist again who did an ultrasound and still no baby, only the sac. Thursday I went for a D & C as I was now 11 weeks and my body was not expelling the failed pregnancy.

I hope your journey ends positive but if it doesn't just know there are so many women that have experienced the heartache of miscarriage. My pregnancy was a "blighted ovum" so that's why a fetus never developed.  I will keep you in my prayers momma.

[Kinax3]

Thx everyone i really appreciate it...trying to stay hopeful

[drealove84]

WAIT IT OUT! I was told with this baby that it was gonna be a miscarriage! They couldn't be more wrong! Im 32 weeks now! Good luck to you! I hope everything works out for the best!

[MommyToBeOfFive]

Thought and prayers. Hoping the Dr is wrong and that this is a happy and healthy pregnancy for you.

[sweetbee3]

Ohhh my.... so much going on! The fear, anxiety,  the unknown! Its hard to imagine what you're going through!  I will keep you + baby in my prayers!!  

[Kinax3]

Thx, i def need it

[kittin_1988]

It was really hard to stay calm but I just prayed am hoped  for the best outcome. I was around 11 almost 12 weeks before they found my daughter's heartbeat.

[Kinax3]

Did u have any clots at any point?

[mamabrittany15]

Definitely give it time and wait. This happened with my mom. They flat out told her she was miscarrying. She decided to let it happen on its own instead of them "taking care of it", we all prayed and my sister is now 21 years old!!

[Kinax3]

Thk u so much