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PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Hi ladies,av been trying to get pregnant for d past 6mnths now,all to no avail av been taking my folic acid everyday still no show..I was thinking dis is it bt jt got my period yesterday...nd am had broken....wat do I do...pls pray for me...cos my hubby is not finding it funny anymore....he can't wait to be a father.....pls any help/suggestion will be welcomed....
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We tried this and honest to God I got pregnant within the next week.
They estimated it happened the 16th of January. And my doctor told me the 9th.

Everyone is different though.
I hope this helps.
Also, the less you worry about it the better.

We had a family tragedy towards the end of January and hadnt thought about the baby issue again.
2 weeks later we found out.

So good luck, I'll pray for you.
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I had this similar problem.
We tried everyday all the time and nothing happened!
After a year and a half I talked to my doctor again and this is the best advice/ instruction she gave me (trust me it worked within a week).
1. She told me not to have sex everyday!
That was a big no no! It lowers his sperm count.
2. After my period WAIT 6 days and then have sex for those next 2days-3days.
3. Those 6days you're waiting to have sex he CANNOT ejaculate
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I know it's hard not to think about it all the time and try. We tried for 6 months, always watching my cycle and best time to have sex. In feb/march I said to my partner let's stop focusing on that and focus on saving for a house by the end of this year. Then literally next month in April test came back positive. Currently 14 weeks along.
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Fanks ladies....jt dat it's so fustrating...as frm today am trying no more...
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Check your hormones,my problem  to concieve was tyorid,tsh.
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You need to take prenatal pills and go see your dr to see whats up with your body. Take those ovulation test and get busy during those times.  Get healthy and exercise it helps-i got prego w/ my 1st 2yrs later. Sec, 3yrs later we not even tried,  but relax and enjoyed sex every other day or few days and finally 2nd child. After sex make sure you lie on ur bk for ten min with pillow so sperms can travel
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The less you try and put pressure on yourself the more it tends to happen. My close friend had been trying for years. She went by times and dates that was best to conceive and it caused her and her partner alot of stress which of course didn't help. Then one day she said she wasnt going to try anymore and the following month she fell pregnant. It must be incredibly frustrating but it will happen.  Just try and relax about it and keep positive xx
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Well at first my boyfriend and i used to try but then i decided to stop trying and let it happen.Now I'm 30 weeks pregnant and ready for it to all be over thank God I've made it this far.Good luck it will happen
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Stop trying and it always seems to happen. Goodluck it can be frustrating but I suggest eat well take prenatals and have fun with sex. Trying can cause unknown stress and makes it harder.
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Go have you female exam . I had been trying for 2 years and now im excepting my first child a lil girl. Eat healthy and go walking and both of you relax during and after sex. 14 or so days I bealive you OV on a 28 day cycle . I didn't think it would happen me for at all. We started hicking and just one day I couldn't do it and I knew found out I was only 5 weeks. It will happen for you babe! But make sure you make that appointment.  : ) good luck and have fun
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