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Pregnant after miscarriage

Any other momma's out there pregnant again after a miscarriage?
I lost my son at 16wks September 2014 and we were trying again right away. I had my positive test Jan 4th and go for an U/S this afternoon for dating (I should be about 9wks).
I'm feeling very nervous as I'm approaching what should have been my son's due date (Feb 19th).
Me and my fiancé split up a week after I told him I was pregnant again (he said he wants to "try" to work on things with his ex, yeah... I know)
SO, I'm going through this essentially alone. He is meeting me at my appt. today, but it's still hard as we are still living together but I move the end of the month :(
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I miscarried at 10 weeks in may 2014, and 3 weeks later conceived again. I was nervous as hell and worried for quite a while, but with plenty monitoring and prenatal care, I am now 38 + 3 and she will be here any day now, right on track and healthy. Had a few bumps along the way, but all is well and my 3 year old can't wait for his baby sister.
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because of everything that's been happening, I told everyone already. my work, friends, family etc. just because im so emotional over me and my fiancé splitting. and I have 0- blood and they found antibodies, so I have to be closely monitored, and need more time off work :(
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I miscarried in 2012 at 17 weeks and it almost killed me. My mister and i didn't want to say anything too early because of the heartbreak it caused last time so we are letting people who need to know now that I'm showing know.
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Im sorry for the split, but u have all the mummy's support here. I miscarriage twice after my first child. Because my weak body and over emotional. Now I'm pregnant 6weeks...nervous! To avoid mc again i keep my self very healthy calm...relax more! Take care mummy! All the best
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I had no reason for the miscarriage.
We were both healthy.
Which is why they said there was no reason to not try right away, but having no answer makes it even scarier.
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Good luck to you and Best wishes .
The feeling never goes away the fear of mc. I'm approaching my mark where I mc before and its so scary. But believing in my Dr and being seen often&labeled as high risk puts me at ease in a way.
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I had a mc sept 6 2014 @ 19 wks
I got pregnant immediately after my first period
Doctor didn't tell me anything bad about it they found out why I mc and now im taking precautions. Which puts me at 17 wks right now.
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Yeah, that's the hardest part right now.
And I know the fears wont go away until I'm holding this little babe in my arms.
We said we'd try til January and if I got my period then we'd stop til after we were married. So after getting my period October, November and December, (and only being intimate 6x in December) I definitely didn't think it would happen!
I found out a day after I took Levi's u/s pictures down, and I'm due within mere days of delivering him. So I can't ignore those signs.. Just seems like it's meant to be, you know?
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I had miscarriage last year february, and although we felt really bummed out, we didn't want to just drop the idea about baby, and went with "whatever happens - happens". And now I am scheduled to have a c-section tomorrow. :)) One thing I can tell you - worries about miscarrying do not go away, at least they didn't for me. But in one way it's not a bad thing,because all you think about is baby's health, and other problems don't seem so severe. I'll have my fingers crossed for you.
And really sorry about baby's dad. I don't know full story, but it seems such a horrible move - leaving you when you are pregnant, despite the fact you were trying together,so he wasn't against it. Keep strong!  
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