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I cant believe im in this situation!! help!!

Im 10 weeks pregnant with baby #3(not planned) The reason im not filled with joy and exitement is becuz im filled with stress!! My husband and i are both out of work and are barely getting by, also i have hg so its very hard to do anything but is easing up, anyways my husband said he is going back to school in the fall when the baby is due! Also he is going to coach 2 football teams volunteer!! Instead of getting a job. I guess i just feel completely helpless becuz im sick and cant get up and get a job and get out! Is this pregnancy hormones or is my husbands priorities outta wack!!???
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4738473 tn?1360035798
I think it sound like he may have his prioraties alittle off. Even a part time job would be more helpfull than nothing. I would sit down and talk with him, let him know how lost your feeling in this situation and that you need his help to ensure your family will be ok. Hopefully seeing that you are upset and hearing you say you need him will help him snap out of it.
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4309243 tn?1353919791
I am sure there are plenty of jobs he could do around his football. I have 2 children, studying at university full time and still have a job. Well....i am on the maternity leave from this week :)  i do think that if he is very passionate about football coaching he needs to do it .... People often loose interest to life if they loose passion. But that is no excuse to not have a job.
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He is 25 and he has worked off and on but hasnt been able to keep a job cuz he will quit to coach football!
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He needs to get a job...
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4309243 tn?1353919791
I hope you feel better. Not bein rude but he is behaving like a child! How old is he? Has he always been like this? I mean with the other children...
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287246 tn?1318570063
He should def get a job.  For him not to is not being a responsible husband/father.  Prayers to you!!
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Thank you for the happy thoughts :)
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No i don't think it's hormones, he should get a job that pays...sending you good thoughts, i hope things get better for you soon! Hang in there!
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