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Really need some advice please
Just wanted some advice really,I had a us 9 days ago found a sac but no baby!!today I had a internal scan and still the same!,been told it's not a viable pregnancy and a tablet to help me miscarry is being offered to me tomorow!!dont know what to do??ive had my bloods done once but that was nine days ago so have nothing to compare with,hcg levels etc!!part of me wants to take the pill and get it over and done with but a part of me is thinking they are wrong!!heads all over the place!!any advice would be much appreciated!!apparently the sac is misshaped but hasn't changed in size in 9 days !!i should be 7 weeks according to lmp and got all the sickness feelings of being pregnant and frequently going toilet !!all the usual pregnancy feelings and positive pregnancy tests!!just feel like that small chance that they are wrong!!dont know what to do!!i have no bleeding or discomfort!!
Thanku for ur kind words jen'! Really means alot !!feeling a bit better in myself tbh!!alot less to think about if u get me!!!dont feel so "on edge" x
I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. Best of luck in the future :)
Thanku for all ur support guys!!uve all been brilliant!!bad news today!!had another scan and still no baby!!had the pill today to start the miscarrage!!im ok cos u guys kept me going and gave me someone to talk to when i thought i had no one to turn to!!just waiting for things to happen now!!want to try again too so as soon as i can( not sure how long) we will be trying again!!!thanku again everyone !!xxx
Good luck hun!!
Definitely get a second opinion! Maybe go to the hospital and see what they say! But I wouldn't take the pill until you know for sure, because you don't want to have that in the back of your mind for the rest of your life! I know of a girl who had the same thing, they said there was no baby in her belly and to come back to take two pills and luckily she never went back to get the pills and after a few weeks sure enough the baby finally showed up on the ultrasound! She's now about to deliver her baby! I would just make sure before you make any decision!
Thanku all!!fingers crossed for tuesday!!All ur comments have been really helpful '!! Xx
Praying for you!
Is it possible to go to a different doctor? A second opinion maybe?
Thanku huni'!just over thinking again
I just went through this back in November and I ended up getting a DNC or d&c can't remember the term....but your body is tricking you...I had all the signs even felt the flutters I was 14 weeks when I got it done...in a few months try again if you're up to it I'm now 6weeks with a little girl growing in my belly....its nothing you did wrong our bodies sometimes just does what it wants
From the actual date i had intercourse(sorry for being so blunt) im only 7 weeks today whereas the day i had the 30 second scan i was only 6 weeks and 3 days ????and thats assuming i fell pregnant on that actual day!!sorry if i confuse any one!!xx
Ive heard that dating scans arnt as accurate as ppl think!!so thats why they dont like to scan early unless theres a problem'!can anyone shed any light onto this plz!!i read in my file that at my first scan i was meant to be 6 weeks 5 days but i know from date of intercourse that thats just not possible!!if i was only six weeks now should they be able to see anything other than a gestation sack!!"??minds doing overtime again!!im so sorry for all these questions!!x
Well,,,,i went to the hospital ,apparently didnt need to do my bloods??confused about this!!they now want to se me a week tuesday for another scan!!not building my hopes up and there being any change'!feel so down about all this!!still no bleeding or signs of miscarrage!!just wish so much that things were different!!
You're So welcome sweetie. Best of luck and prayers your way today and every day.
Thanku amanda!!im going in for hcg levels to be checked!!!so ill let u know what happens when i get back!!i agree with not taking the pill thanks to wonderful ppl on here!!thanku everyone
From my personal experience, Please don't take the pill. It was the worst pain I had ever been through. My husband said I begged for my tubes to be tied I was in So much pain. I blacked out from the pain and just remember pieces of nurses giving me pain meds. I hurt for days after too. Contractions and all just like labor. If I had it to do over, I'd have a d&c. But, Im with the other ladies. Wait to see if your body passes naturally. I waited 10-15 days Then was talked into taking the pill.
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Thanku!!its just so heart breaking the way they treat u!!if they were 100% sure then why tell me after they said i could have the pill ,that i can come back in couple of weeks!!i was thinking(havent stopped) that if it is seven weeks from my lmp then how would i be seven weeks pregnant!!all this ovulation dates and stuff im reading is making me wonder how far along i really am!!!going in for hcg levels which seems weird that they are doing it now i didnt turn up for the tablet!!and also the internal scan i had lasted all of 30 seconds from start to finish'!didnt feel un comfortable ,like any pushing like other ppl describe!!more half hearted than confident if u get what i mean!!so stressed over this its unreal
Lornadoo
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Thanku!!its just so heart breaking the way they treat u!!if they were 100% sure then why tell me after they said i could have the pill ,that i can come back in couple of weeks!!i was thinking(havent stopped) that if it is seven weeks from my lmp then how would i be seven weeks pregnant!!all this ovulation dates and stuff im reading is making me wonder how far along i really am!!!going in for hcg levels which seems weird that they are doing it now i didnt turn up for the tablet!!and also the internal scan i had lasted all of 30 seconds from start to finish'!didnt feel un comfortable ,like any pushing like other ppl describe!!more half hearted than confident if u get what i mean!!so stressed over this its unreal
Thanku!!its just so heart breaking the way they treat u!!if they were 100% sure then why tell me after they said i could have the pill ,that i can come back in couple of weeks!!i was thinking(havent stopped) that if it is seven weeks from my lmp then how would i be seven weeks pregnant!!all this ovulation dates and stuff im reading is making me wonder how far along i really am!!!going in for hcg levels which seems weird that they are doing it now i didnt turn up for the tablet!!and also the internal scan i had lasted all of 30 seconds from start to finish'!didnt feel un comfortable ,like any pushing like other ppl describe!!more half hearted than confident if u get what i mean!!so stressed over this its unreal
Something similar happened to me when i was 6 weeks they told me there was no sac and then said baby was in a tube so that i was having a ectopic pregnancy and was told they had to remove "the sac of blood" so idk my instincts was telling me they were wrong and was offered surgery that night which i refused to and was told my life was at risk for that so i asked to get another ultrasound and then was told they werent sure anymore if baby was in the tube or not so i was scheduled a week later for hcg level check and now i am 22 weeks and expecting a babygirl❤ so what im trying to say is dont lose hope God is good and will protect your little angel just keep the faith going :)
Thanku mellissa'! Ill let u know what today brings!!ur advice was very helpfull thanku
I was told the same thing, my obgyn with my last sono I was 6 weeks with just a sac no baby, I was supposed to be 9 weeks, stuff wasn't adding up, they did hcg levels and my levels were dropping, then a few days passed I went in to the ER because I was spotting lightly the ER found my baby to be 9 weeks 4 days with a heart beat of 87 :( they said I would most likely miscarry. I didn't want to believe them so I went home and later that night I miscarried. Point is seek a second opinion if you have to and let your body do what it has to. Great blessings your way love.
Thanku so much for ur replys!!the hospital rang me yesterday because i didnt go for the tablet and now want me in for a hcg blood test which they havent done so in there today for that and a plan of action'!ill keep u all posted !!thanku all for ur advice !!uve all been very helpful
Give it a couple more weeks. It won't hurt to wait. If you go back in there and it's the same, then you'll know. I would freak out at the thought of it possibly being a baby
Happened to me in September. It's by easy but they would not make a diagnosis like this unless they were sure. Hang in there and know that as hard as this is, it will be harder emotionally for the next few months. So sorry you are going through this but know it is more common than you realize. I am now 20 weeks pregnant and had a positive test within 6 months of a DNC for my similar situation to yours. There is a new opportunity and sometimes there is a greater timing that you just don't know yet.
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