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Serious question about sex?

Please don't judge. This is my first baby and My bf is a very sexual person who likes to have rough sex (which I'm for) but now that I'm pregnant, should we take rough sex out of the picture? Can it harm my baby?
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Do what you are comfortable with, the last time we had sex I was 20 wks or so, I've now had my baby...she is 3 wks old and we prob won't have sex until mid December :/ ahhhhhhh
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My advise is better to be safe than sorry. Go slow if it's your first pregnancy ever as you're not sure if you're high or low risk of miscarriage. Not worth the pain if you can enjoy it slow, after all your number 1 priority now is to keep your blessing. In this case, it's always best to seek advice from your doctor and be safe!
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I think it's fine (: hubby and I are the same. Kind of vigorous lol it won't harm baby unless you're high risk (even then slow, soft sex isn't advised) but if everything is healthy then sex it up!
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My husband is the same way he needs it 3-5times a day lol. At first we did it slow because I was scared of losing the baby but in my 2nd trimester we went harder and at the beginning of my 3rd trimester because I was hoping it would help my cervix.  The only thing was I bled sometimes after because I think it was too rough but the baby is perfectly fine. I am 39 weeks now and we still try to do it a little hard to get the little one to come out but it doesn't work at all.
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Mine is the same. Wants some when he knows there is time for it lol. We both love rough sex, but I started to get concerned and thought that maybe we should slow it down for now. I would rather us not, but if it harms the baby we could wait some time. I'm 16 weeks and 5 days so if you can do it, I don't see why I cant. :). Thank you so much.
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Nope. I mean, I probably wouldn't do any super erotic 50 shades of grey type stuff, but a little pizzaz is fine.
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Haha, I agree.. 50 shades of grey might be a bit much. I'm not showing yet, but since he likes it rough, we talked about it and he said he would slow it down if he had to, but I know him. He likes it rough. If we don't have to, I rather keep the rough sex going.  :). Thank you.

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