Sex an Pregnancy?

[Krisspooh]

Hey I just have a question about sex during pregnancy me an my boyfriend has had sex in the beginning of my pregnancy it was great an around 3 months it started to hurt whenever we had sex so I went to the doctor an she said I had a yeast infection so I was relieved because she gave me some medicine an it cleared up an me an my boyfriend started to have sex again an a week later the pain an swolleness came back an it's been very stressful because we haven't had sex since I was 4 months an we try other things to spice our sex life up my doctor said she see no sign of infections now could it be something else serious I go to the doctor on the 19th of this month I'm just worried......

[gabriellaandbaby]

Thanks guys!

[pregoX3]

TA283...that "T" position has been a miracle for me!!!! No pressure, I can control how deep and my hubby doesn't tire out...it's wonderful!!!

[Krisspooh]

Well gabriella me an my boyfriend have actually done it in that hole a couple times but before I actually let him do it an we had sex an it slips out I always try to move my hips if I feel like its about to slip out or I tell him so he can adjust his self or you can take control in some position so that way you can control the rhythm an speed that also helps to....

[gabriellaandbaby]

This is a good question. My issue has been that every position I feel like he's going to slip onto the wrong hole. Tmi but it's happened and it's the worrrrrst pain. How do u guys keep from that happening?

[TA283]

I was lying down on my stomach at first, legs together once he got in so he wouldn't accidentally hurt me.
It's definitely been a very tight squeeze for a while now (38+5) and so we usually have sex lying on our sides, or I put a pillow under my chest and pull my knees up to the sides of my chest so my belly won't be squashed.
The best position I have tried with him is to lie down perpendicular with him at my bottom and put my legs over his side. Like lying down in a T shape and using him for a foot rest lol this way I still have control of how deep he can go. Also, I get to recline onto my pillows and he doesn't have to be holding himself up on his arms or knees to keep from hurting the belly.

[Krisspooh]

An abbb01 we tryed the doggystyle position an it actually felt good until the pain came back. We tryed the side by side position the other night an it felt like my goods were not trying to let him in an it hurted bad so I will talk to my doctor to see if it's an deeper issue but we will try some of the positions

[Krisspooh]

Lol okay Nikki I will try that an see if it works.....

[abbb01]

I waa the opposite of nikki anyway doggy style felt like he was tearing me apart down there if I layed and the edge of the bed or sat somewhere higher like kitchen countertop (I have alot of lysol wipes lol) he could stand and go for it without putting any pressure on my belly and I could shove pillows under my hips but also used lube and I wouldn't let him trim or shave his privates cuz itd make me raw

[NikkiPrego]

Im on my 4th baby and have had this with all of them. This is about to get into tmi zone so prepare yourself..... this is the best position I have found for pain free sex while pregnant.  Get on your hands and knees on the bed. Put pillows under your hips and under your boobs to keep you high enough so your belly comfortably rest on a small pile of blankets. Your back should be slightly arched. You do tend to dry out a little after a couple mins so make sure you have some lube handy. This solves the lower belly ache since it keeps it from bouncing and due to the slight arch your guy cant get in too far and hit your cervix. It also spares you hip bones from awkward positions and the arch keeps the risk of accidental painal (wrong hole slippage lol) to a minimum. You also want a wadded up blanket or pillows for your head. If your head hangs down when you stand up your going to be dizzy and get a sudden bad headache.

[Krisspooh]

Because our baby boy will be here next month but it's not working so we just substitute an after the baby come an my body gets back to normal then hopefully we will get our sex back lol

[Krisspooh]

Thanks an we have tryed the side position an it worked for a minute an then the pain was to painful so we did missionary an it worked but I guess the pressure up against my cervix made the baby upset so we just stop trying an did other things for pleasure I'm now 33 weeks an it's hard because I want us to have fun tim

[AminaM1]

I think it just tho goods down there.I know im uncomfortable sometimes & the size does matter... and I notice on our side is much easier. I believe its just the pregnant body being difficult. But try the relaxing positions its hard to be wild & free after 3 months for some moms. I have had that Issue also the exact same from the infection to the clear to the discomfort usually laying on our sides help me and baby belly a lot! And dad is pretty happy to cuz he gets what he wants.thete are other pregnant positions also. Made for discomfort good luck

[latifah47]

Im not sure what it is called but im 39 weeks an the same thing has been happening to me threw my whole pregnancy i think its normal