TMI

[missy123421]

Does anyone's husband feel that pregnancy gives them the license to finish up inside?. ....Before I got pregnant, we always use condom except for the one time that made me pregnant. I kept telling him NO, he needs to finish up outside. ...lol. For some reason, after getting what i wanted (falling pregnant), the thought of him finishing inside me gross me the hell out.

[jneslo]

I am also a little confused why that would be a bad thing...unless it is about leaking afterwards.  I've used a panty liner in the past - now I seem to be able to 'push' it out so to speak - kegel it out or get the majority out and so it doesn't seem to leak later.  I definitely would never want to use condoms if I don't have to and I also found it broke up the intimacy when he was worried about not letting go in side of me.  Takes more concentration instead of just enjoying each other.  Maybe you need to ask yourself why it bothers you.  

[wishes2891]

Ha ha my hubby is the same way. For me it has nothing to do with being grossed out by normal sex its more of a cleanliness issue. We didn't use condoms but for thirteen years we've used the pull out method and it is so so much easier and quicker to clean up when its not inside me. When its inside it just leaks out a little at a time even though i always pee afterwards and use a wash rag to clean off. I still end up having to change underwear an hour or so after bc they are wet. We've reached a compromise though. If we're not going anywhere anytime soon he can finish inside bc I know it feels better for him but if we're just catching a quickie before going somewhere hefinishes ououtside so I don't get squishy pants. Maybe you two could reach some sort of compromise too.

[BCD13]

I think that whether you like it or not, you should keep the lines of communication open and talk to hubby about it. He may have no idea he's upsetting you,  and talking about it may make you more comfortable with the idea of it all. It is gross,  but talk it out and you'll feel more in control of your "marital bliss" lol

[bookworm4992]

I agree with rockrose! That's ur husband girl, that juice is yours for life! Might as well get used to it!:) I hate condoms!  Hate! Will never use them again! N I love it when my hubby "finishes" inside. I feel like it brings us closer together,  n makes our connection stronger,  but that's just me=)

[surprisedashell]

I'm with RockRose on this. Seems pretty unreasonable.

[GG2014]

Totally get the not liking the ickyness of it all but u cant really complain when theres no danger of getting pregnant....u already are!! Lol

[bbm1188]

Lol semen can be good. Like when your further along it can help soften the cervix and help dilate you. So think of it as medicine? Lol idk Ive always been grossed out by it but then again grateful for the magic juice. It got me a baby just what I've always wanted.

[RockRose]

I think the bigger concern,  missy,  is for you to work on getting grossed out by normal sex.  I don't know if this is simply because you're pregnant and maybe feeling very sick anyway,  but it seems kind of  unreasonable to ask him to wear a condom if you're pregnant and monogamous.