Waiting to see an OB...

[NikkieBeee]

I'm 7wks & 1day pregnant according to my LMP. I have decided to wait to see an OB until I'm at least about 12wks gestation. My reason for wanting to wait was because in 2011 I went to an ER for abdominal pains, I was about 5wks pregnant at the time. They told me my uterus was empty and I had a complete miscarriage. My husband and I were devastated, more so my husband. They told me what to expect and when my menstrual cycle should return. After 6wks and none of that happened, I went to see my doctor. Well, come to find out, I never miscarried and I was 10wks and some days pregnant. I was happy but also a little pissed off that all those sad feelings were unnecessary . So, now I want to wait until my first trimester is over, to see a doctor and have an ultrasound when there is no denying that there is a fetus in my uterus. Do you think waiting will do more harm than good? I am taking prenatal pills and have no major complaints about the way I feel. I'm just worried that I'm putting myself and/or the fetus at an unnecessary risk. Any advice will be appreciated.

[Angebelle]

Congrats!! I'm so happy for you and your family. Agreed, no issues with waiting. Most big tests arent done anyway until around 16-20 wks? gosh, i cant even remember and it was only a year ago. You seem so relaxed and confident. Go Momma!

[mrsmelyssa]

I went to the doctor when I was 6 weeks and they didn't really do anything but confirm pregnancy and schedule be back at 12 weeks. So I think you will be fine. Keep taking your prenatals and try to relax and not stress about it. Easier said than done, right?!? Congrats and keep up updated.

[mboomhower]

You are totally fine waiting. Remember your prenatal pills and you will be good.

[chloec214]

I'm from Ireland and we have to wait till 12 week scan anyway so don't worry waiting will do no harm..I'm 7 weeks so I've to wait another month for my first scan

[cindy82]

Long as your taking your vitamins and not having no complications you and baby will be fine. Alot of doctors don't do much until then anyways