I've had 5 children and that wasn't true for me. Everyone, every pregnancy is different but I don't agree with more painful.
Also for bf, my first baby, it was hard for me. It got easier the second time and on because I knew what to expect. Hope that you are able to do again.
Im having a babyboy!!!!! But wanted a lilo girl but itz all good thou still gonna love him.... Due April 18,2014