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baby shower plans at my fathers house!

So I came to visit my father for a few days while my fiance is out of town and I come down stairs for dinner and I see about four women sitting in the sunroom one of which is my fathers girlfriend all speaking about a baby shower that is apparently going to occur in my dads house in the next month!  BUT it's not for ME!  My cousin is having her shower here which actually pisses me off very much ever since I found out I was pregnant she has tried to make it a competition in fact everything through out our lives she has tried to make a competition pretty much so she can get attention from my father which I  feel she's my family there shouldn't be any competition between us. Idk I'm pissed because first they need to use my fathers house, then they need to drag the one person who would help me do anything in reference to a baby shower in to helping them plan. My mother passed away when I was four maybe I just feel like can she let her mom and friends plan her crap rather than trying to have my dad and his girlfriend involved!
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That really blows I'm sorry
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The problem is I don't want her or her mother to do anything because it's always a competition. My dads girlfriend wanted to plan something for me but Ive come to the conclusion that I'd rather my fiance family to do it since mine wants to be *****!  My dad didn't realize I'd be so upset and when he did he tried to talk to me but it was beyond to late
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I'd be pissed off too.  Just let it roll off your back though. People like your cousin do stuff like that because they're miserable. It ***** that they're doing that to you but maybe they'll plan one for you too
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