So I came to visit my father for a few days while my fiance is out of town and I come down stairs for dinner and I see about four women sitting in the sunroom one of which is my fathers girlfriend all speaking about a baby shower that is apparently going to occur in my dads house in the next month! BUT it's not for ME! My cousin is having her shower here which actually pisses me off very much ever since I found out I was pregnant she has tried to make it a competition in fact everything through out our lives she has tried to make a competition pretty much so she can get attention from my father which I feel she's my family there shouldn't be any competition between us. Idk I'm pissed because first they need to use my fathers house, then they need to drag the one person who would help me do anything in reference to a baby shower in to helping them plan. My mother passed away when I was four maybe I just feel like can she let her mom and friends plan her crap rather than trying to have my dad and his girlfriend involved!