Any other ladies have incompetent cervix and have a cerclage. My question is when did y'all have sex. I'm on bedrest and no sex. I really want to have sex before baby. I'm almost thirty weeks now but they won't take the cerclage out until 36weeks. Im going to ask my dr im jus curious if anyone else experienced it. I was thinking around 34-36weeks we could have sex before baby gets here. But unsure if ill be able to after the cerclage is out.