You can get just about everything you need secondhand, just look for the better quality stuff. Ebay and thrift stores are good and cheaper department stores will have sales. Hand me downs from friends/family. Remember that one of the most important things your baby needs is love :-)
You can always ask around if anyone has any old baby stuff they don't want.talk with coworkers ask family or friends if they know anyone who has old baby stuff just laying around . U can try going to garage sales or the thrift store to find stuff cheap.
I feel ya. All my money goes to bills. And I literally don't have one friend so baby shower is a no go. Good luck lady
Have a baby shower if should help you