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domestic vilence

So my unborn child's father showed up yesterday. Mad because I wouldn't let him in MY HOUSE. We were talking threw my front kitchen window(big window) he gets really angry and punches the window while I'm standing right in front of it and all the glass comes down my me. I had to get five stitches on my upper eye andmy arm is cut up bad. I'm back at home now and is scared everytime I hear a little creek in the floor... No we were not together and no we will not be back together never. Highly kids wherein the house at the time n now I'm fearing for my life. Joslin had the nerve to sayitwas my fault...lol I'm so over this I feel like my like is in hell n all I want is to be and have a happy pregnancy:(
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Get a restraining order and if he comes back call the police. He has issues sounds like. Good luck
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You know I thought I had a caring family but I soon realized that I don't. My mom and my oldest sister took me to the hospital and my mom got mad at me because I was scared and screaming because they had to put a needle in MY opened cut and it hurt like hell so I cried. I've been emotional and devastated since Sunday and I'm asking my mom for help and she acts like she can't do it or that her life is to busy to take me to go see the detective or go put the restraining order on him. Nobody has checked up on me. They just act like I don't exist. But it's fine because at the end of the day o gues all you really have is yourself and your kids. This has been the worse pregnancy ever and I just want it to be over with.:(
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If u feel unsafe to be their and if u can afford to move, then do what u can. Do u have family, friends who would understand ur situation and would take u and ur family in? All this is not easy, I understand. I hope things works out for ur benifit and soon.
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Yes the police was call my face was bleeding n my children were here. I do need to. Put a restraining order. I just got back home today. I'm a lil scared to be here. His stuff is still here and idk what to do with it?
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File a report. They need those on file to make getting a restraining order easier.  
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I hope you called the police straight away? If not, go and file a report, even if you don't plan to press charges (which I certainly would, nobody messes with mama bear's belly bump). If he ever tries to make you out to be an "unfit" mom or claims he'll try to get custody, you'll have a police report and medical records proving he assaulted you while pregnant. I'd play it safe and file for a restraining order as well, make it hell for him to come near you or your house/children.
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6169855 tn?1379398439
Sorry to hear what u are going through. I too ended up being in a bad situation. My sister's boyfriend was no good. All it took was one day for me to find out. It happened in my house and he beat her up bad. I told him he had to leave. I also had kicked my boyfriend out of my apt because he was lazy while I was busting my butt at work while he complained all day about my sister and her boyfriend. My sister's boyfriend kept coming by the door and threatening her and my family. I had to keep calling the police because she was afraid too. I had to leave my job and move out of state. I was 7 months pregnant and I felt unsafe and I was stressing out. The thing is my sister doesn't see how much I've done for her. No one in my apartment wanted to work and I had to pay all the bills. So I had to quit my job for her safety and mines. Her man had been beating her up and she let that man in my apt and I didn't know. Never again. No more making choices that will affect my child and my life. Just saying ur not alone and all we can do is move forward and think positive for our future.
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