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Today I woke up and got ready along with my 2 boys. I'm on my 3rd boy 33 weeks and I need to go do laundry before school on Monday. My husband knows we need to do laundry and as I'm putting some bags in the car, he says ur gna hurt urself. So I sit down and wait for him to do it. I look in the room and he's laying on the bed. I was like are u gna help me? He flips out and says he's not going to the laundry to help.  So here I go me prego and 2 boys to do 5 loads. I come home and he's at his moms. Where their every weekend. He's like come over.  I told him I didn't want to because it's the same thing every weekend. How can men be so careless?  
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I have been waiting for my husband to vacuum the carpet for 3 weeks.. Hell freezes over before i get a back pain doing it.. Just found the "I can be selfish too" manual and ohh i am practicing.
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Or better yet swing by and drop off his laundry at his mama's house since he thinks that's where he should be and not there with you helping out!!
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I agree and I HAVE done that. 10 years of being married you learn a thing or two. Let's see if he appreciates his dirty undies ;)
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I would of took his laundry out of the dirty baskets and did my clothes and my kids. Lol his lazy *** has time to go to his moms but can't help with laundry.
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You could skip his laundry. He either helps or it doesn't get done. If that's too mean, talk about it. Its unreasonable for someone to tell you what to do then refuse to help because they think you shouldn't do it. How else will it get done?
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Good question. He needs to be aware of what your going thru. He could of helped you or even took the other boys. Wow I just don't know what to say. I'm sorry. Some men just don't understand or care. He should of offered to do the laundry. I get mad if my hubby don't help me. I tell him to help or he can just go somewhere else and I will find different help. He says he's tired after work well I tell him try taking care of our 2 girls and a baby that drains all your energy.
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