Its just funny b/c my step dad will call me "fatty" which I'm not offended b/c he's saying it as a joke. But when ppl seriously question how many human beings I have in my tummy! Lol. Which I'm not mad, just annoyed that ppl don't hear what they say.
It seems like people lose all tact around a pregnant woman and just say whatever they want to not realizing that they are talking to somebody hormonal and emotional and will more than likely take their comments offensively... I was at the bank and some lady asked me when I was due... I said June 5th... and she said "you still have 2 more months where are you going to put it?" -- im actually not that big and I was much bigger with my last pregnancy... it was just soo rude!!
Huh, here this out..
I told my mom was she insisted buying smth for me, as my hubby went back home on a visit.
She wanted to have him smth for me.
So I took advantage of this n asked her to send me some nice comfy, tshirts.
She goes "oh but how will I know what size u are, I saw a picture of u, u look big plus I don't know ur style anymore ". Mom m just pregnant.. Which will change! Gawd!
I'm like wtf?
Well, today my mom wanted me to try on a shirt that she bought but was too big for her. So I asked, "are you calling me fat?" She then proceeded, "well you are.....pregnant." As if she had to catch herself before she finished her answer. I managed to keep my feelings in tact, but it's the freaking principal. So, I can relate....lol.
My family irritates the crap out of me, thankfully they don't live near me and I just ignore calls when I'm not in the mood to speak to them.