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hubby lost interest:-(

Anyone elses partner seem to b less into u sexually? Im pregnant wif our 3rd and we hve been married for 11 years and hve always had a good relationship but this is the first time ive feel he doesnt wnt me (sexually), I didnt notice it wif our other pregnancies cuz I never wnted it but this pregnancy I hve a high libedo and he seems to b the opposite, I asked him bout it like if hes less attracted to me cuz of the belly  And he swears no hes just tiered but I feel like its me and cuz im pregnant he thinks im fragile or something , he came in wen I was in the shower and asked me something , the fact that I was naked had absolutely no effect on him, hes never seen me naked and not made a comment , mabey im just being ova sensitive but I feel unattractive :-(
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Haha my BD seems to think hes going to poke the baby in the head. I told him not to flatter himself that's pretty much impossible. He didn't care the whole pregnancy but now that im in the 9th month hes all scared
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Thanks , at least im not alone wif this one!
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I just spoke to my hubs about this. He says he's just not in the mood. We were at one point very active. You're not alone. It *****. Makes you feel like less of a woman when you aren't desired. At least we know we aren't alone though. Good luck.
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My hubby lost interest right around me being 4 to 5 months pregnant. I'm 32 weeks and we have not had sex since then! It's been tearing me apart because I have wanted to so bad. He says its because he feels weird about it because his son is in there. Nothing I do seems to get him in the mood. I walk around in my undies even. He said its not because he doesn't find me beautiful. With being so close to delivery I've learned to be ok with it and I will have to see if his desire and drive to have sex returns after our son is born. If not we are gonna have problems! Lol I hope it gets better. Sounds like maybe y'all need to have a deep conversation and maybe jump on him lol if that doesn't work you may have to wait it out.  Good luck :) hope it goes well
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Lol , sounds good but trust me hes not responding to anything , like I said he saw me naked and nothing! But ur rite thatt would normally work
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Lol bellababy suppose ur right tho I've been with my partner 4 11 years and i would still b 2 shy 2 do that even tho i no he would lv me 2 lol
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Give him a **, that will get him motivated! But yes he could be tired, you do have two other kids and kids will tire you out.
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^I agree, and he probably is telling the truth about being tired.
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Alright ladies I have to say it...if you want it from your man why the heck are you waiting for HIM to make a move on you? If you want it go and get it from him!! Pregnant or not...if you walked up to your husband and laid the deepest kiss on those lips and said "I want you right now right here" he'd spring to action in no time!! So stop being sensitive and start taking initiative!! And when he looks completely dumbfounded and satisfied after just say.." I dunno what got into me, must be these hormones" ;-)
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I'm feeling the same lol my hubby says its because I was so sick he thought he should leave me alone.  But I feel good now and I'm like can I have a cuddle at least?!
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Yer my hubby's like that to , liking a fit body thats why I think hes not feeling it
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I feel that way sometimes to cuz I know my husband likes a fit body not that he really requires that in me cuz I know I wasn't really fit when we met. But anyway he still trys to tell me I'm beautiful and everything I try not to let it bother me to much cuz I know some men just don't get turned on by a preg belly. No worries tho we are all a bit sensitive right now.
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