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lost interest

As my body is growing to make room for baby my husband seems to be losing interest in it. I try to engage him but he's always "busy" on his computer or a video game. Anyone else having these troubles? I feel so alone.
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I understand how u feel I used to feel the same way as I was getting bigger. But he has explain to me so many times that it's because he feels like he hurts the baby. That it's not me. And when we do have sex he acts the same way as before I was pregnant so it maybe that he feels the same way as my husband.
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This is our second baby the first time around I was seriously sad thinking I was a blimp or unattractive or worse there was someone else. But it really was that he wasn't in the mood he still though he I was sex but just that he wasn't into pregnant sex. So I completely understand we have done it in almost 5 months now but we do a whole lot of other stuff and it's actually quite nice to just goof off.
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Buy a extra big sexy nighty and try your best. If you can't get him to come around then after baby you will think about it a lot. I have trouble believing my husband truly wants to have sex with me being pregnant because of my last pregnancy When I just did not do it for him. Good luck. I hope you do not have the same issue.
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Yeah kind of understand that. But sometimes it happens. Your husband loves you but they feel sometimes they may hurt you or the baby.
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