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7607165 tn?1395780125

Would u date pregnant?

Omg question ladies would u date a guy while ur pregnant? And u like him..
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7446981 tn?1393216927
If I wasn't married and I was pregnant... no I would not.
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7754577 tn?1397304688
I would date maybe, but no sex... When my best friend was pregnant I witnessed a lot of random dudes aproach her daily once she started showing.... Needless to say they just wanted her because she was pregnant... When they didnt get what they wanted they suddenly were no where to be found... The one she did choose to get serious with dumped her after she had her baby... I guess he had a fetish... So for that reason I wouldn't trust anyones intentions...
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7879163 tn?1411591644
I would date but he would have to stick around so long to even know what kind of underwear I wear but I would date and still try to have fun if for nothing but to get my mind off of child's father I would always be honest tho because I would want the same
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My 1st born dad and i were just friends. We got drunk 1 night and bam.. Neither of us remember really..9 months later we have an awesome son. He and i have always remained good friends and we co - parent really well together.. Needless to say we were never lovers.
I met a guy whom I didn't want a relationship with but I did want to be intimate with. We were as you would say..friends with benefits. It was awesome!! I got have sex with him whenever I wanted and not have to deal with the added pressures of a relationship and I was able to completely focus all my energy on being a mom etc..

things are a little different this time around..
date a way I couldn't imagine not getting any while pregnant...
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Just use protection ;)
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7530804 tn?1398546771
Yes and yes! I say go for it and have a damn good time. Pregnancy doesn't mean that you're not allowed to date :)
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7607165 tn?1395780125
Lol thx ladies just curious I dont kno if I would do it but if my baby daddy acts up I might consider lol but definitely feels gd when ur pregnant and they hit on u :)
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For some reason guys are still attracted and will date or hit on pregnant women : ) I say do what you feel is right. Im not in that position so I couldn't say yes or no.
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I wouldn't personally, but I think it is okay.
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I would if i wasnt with my babies father i dont see anything wrong with dating but i wouldn't have sex with him until after i had the baby if he was man enough to stick around.
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A girl I went to school with. Ended up messing around with a guy who was only working in our town for a few months. After he left she started dating a guy I know. She found out she was pregnant. It isn't the guy she is dating. But he is staying and stepping up for daddy role
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That's a tough one. If you have closed the door and know there is no point of return then yes why not, but if you have an ounce of maybe something can work out between you and the baby's father I would decline.  When baby comes and if he is planning on being in your baby's life and he is a good dad that can change your heart. You don't want to get hurt or hurt another good guy.  It's your choice but be sure first.
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5891248 tn?1406410864
I have been off and on with my babies father, Ive gotten hit on but it feels weird to date someone else or have sex. I have gone 6 months no sex no kissing. I know horrid but I`d rather wait. The best thing is to wait the pervs that love pregnant women you have to becareful of.
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There are a lot of creeps that think pregnant vagina is the best vagina & they just like to have sex with preggers. Not all. Personally, I couldn't sleep with another man while pregnant. There are stds out there & it just doesn't seem right,  to me. But there'slove out there for everybody,  and u meet the one while pregnant, that's awesome.  I would just wait to date after I had my baby.
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7530616 tn?1406419010
Im currently not with my babys father and I dated another guy I broke it off because I felt beyond weird being pregnant and kissing another guy that wasn't the father of my baby. Then I have a couple other guys interested im like what the heck im pregnant and guys still want me lol my mom said usually that scares guys away lol but I guess not in my case haha but needless to say my baby daddy was jealous when I was dating that other guy lol
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Of course I would date. I just wouldn't have sex unless it's with my child`s father
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8255052 tn?1399861806
I had to tell a guy the other day to "f*** off Im married and pregnant can u see that dumb a$$" but when I got in the car I was like dam go me still pimpen and preggers!  Lol but my attitude is so mean I don't know how I got my husband to fall in love with me! Lol
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I personally wouldn't. Just for the fact I'm still very much in love with my baby's father. And I just don't think I would want to deal with the stress of dating while pregnant when I'm trying to get things prepared for my baby. That's just me though. Not saying anything is wrong with it. :)
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7543158 tn?1391978069
I don't see why not.... if you've known him a while and he actually sticks around it could be a good thing. A lot of guys are iffy about dating women with kids because they're not sure about attitude problems or the father beingnin the picture. Dating a pregnant woman or one with a newborn makes it easier for them to see the child as theirs and step into the daddy role later. If, heavens forbid, my husband had died or something after I'd gotten pregnant I have several guy friends who would stay with me just to help me out. I've known these guys for years and a couple would probably love to be with me if I was ready. It isn't for everybody but if he can stick through the hormones and hassle and actually help out, he's a keeper in my opinion.
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6918915 tn?1395932871
Why not? I think it's probably a pretty awesome guy if he's interested in a girl carrying another mans baby. When I was pregnant with my son ten years ago me and his dad were broken up more often than together and he was horrible. I used to daydream about some guy coming and sweeping me off my feet but I felt that nobody would want a pregnant girl. But if JLo found one in that move than maybe it is possible! Lol I say go for it. As long as you think he's not just looking for a good time, and he's in it with the possibility of long term
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My friend dated while she was pregnant and very much showing. I don't see a problem with it.
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