I would just think he is trying to kill two birds with one stone.
I think it's a great idea. A new baby, and a beach-side wedding are great celebrations of life.
I agree it's probably hormones causing you to feel this possessive of your family's attention - and any mention you make that you don't want to be celebrating anything else but your baby will put a damper on your gathering.
Everyone coming together in your town to celebrate your baby and to have a very informal wedding will be remembered by everyone forever. Great that everyone is willing to travel to be there!
What a jerk. It should b about u and ur baby. He should understand that. I definitely wouldn't go to the wedding
I wouldn't attend the wedding with a 3 day old baby.. Not to mention ifn you're like most people you'll still feel pretty rough from childbirth only 3days later.
I can understand your frustrations but it does sound a lot like hormones. Dont worry, no matter what else is going on. A newborn always takes over the room :)
It's just yours hormones lol don't worry and congrats! All the attention should and will be on your baby