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Is anyone else starting to find it hard to have sex anymore? Not because it's painful but because there's no position you can do that is comfortable! For either of you. :( it's made me feel really ****** and low.
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You ladies are so lucky...I'm at 26+6 and have been on pelvic rest since 22 weeks for marginal previa. Will be until at least 30 weeks!!!.... I'm so darn frisky as it is...not even allowed any 'O's...
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Sex has been next to impossible for the last 10 weeks. I have been either fighting throwing up or fighting a migraine since I was 7 weeks along. It's been miserable cause I really wanna be able to gave sex but its only happened once on that rare day where I felt ok.  I really hope all this passes soon cause I'm getting cranky! Lol. Thank god my boyfriend is more then wonderful and so understanding and just deals with it until I'm ok again. I don't think I can do another 20 plus weeks of no sex!
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My hubby and I do it every night if kids are not in our bed and tmi but doggy style is the only way. Plus being on hands and knees is good for baby lol. We use lube cause it does hurt to start out. Its tighter but I think it will help for labor to. Oh and I'm 38+4
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Although a little uncomfortable, me and my husband are still participating about once a week :)
I'll be 36 weeks on Tuesday lol. I find that me kneeling on my knees on the edge of the bed and him standing up, or me on top really are the most comfortable... I'll admit its a little weird with my hard as a rock belly but the last few times I've wore a tank top (with easy access to my ta ta's) to kinda mask the fact his daughter is growing inside me.
Sex when pregnant is definitely weird and I can't wait to get it on afterwards lol
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Im 38 +4 its so hard to have sex and now my hubby is scared my water is gonna break on him lol
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Yes, but I can't get any. Since we had our first ultrasound my bf is afraid he might hurt the baby.
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@newmummy657 same with my partner he is fine with not having it at all lol a nice cuddle and back rub is fine
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Try putting heaps of pillows down and lying Ur tummy on them get Ur partner to do it from behind prob tmi haha but can't really put it any other way lol
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It's ALWAYS been difficult for me since I was like 4 months...lots of pressure down there. Then I've been sick since I was 6 weeks pregnant so I'm on IV's and have a 24 hour Zofran pump. So, we would laugh because cords would be in the way and he said my facial expression made him feel like he was "taking it"! LOL! Now, I'm still sick but just BIG! So, I feel bad because "pleasing" him as definitely been a task (to say the least).  
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Try doggie style or spooning.... Sometimes you have to start slow with doggie style though cuz (for me at least) it's a little more painful in the beginning than some other positions, good luck ;-)
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Omg yeah lol i try on top and we just stop cuz that was weird lol we start laughing and talking , i feel to big for that. Im 35+1 but i still wanna cuz that help you to go to labor.
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Yes yes and yes... I think last time was at 24 weeks and we both ended up laughing and giving up! I'm now 30 weeks. Thank god I have the best husband who's life doesn't revolve around sex!
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Yeah I understand that. Spooning or from the back is fine. They say you can go on top but I feel self conscious about that as of how big I am now. Worst thing for me is I just want it all the time lol!!!!
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