I'm a ftm and I'm very excited! I'm 28w and 4d. Plus im having a girl! :-) I went to the doctor at 20 weeks to find out the sex and found out my cervix is short. 2.5 but now its dropped to 1.6.... does that mean I could start dialating? I had 2 steriod shots also. If anyone could answer this I would really appreciate it. And my mom had me and my brother fine and has never heard of this.