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talking about people
Do you believe if you talk about people while pregnant your baby will come out ugly? I keep hearing that or is that an equivalent to an old wives tale?
Like backbiting..?
backbiting is one of the worst thing a person can have and do.
If U dont like people backbiting U, then why are u doing the same to others...(just a saying). What others do and say is not ur business, and as they say" the one who backbite to U will backbite about U to".just saying not acusing u.
But I remamber when I wasnt married and lived with my friend and her kids for some months, I remamber I use to say silly things(careless and stupid times) about her kid...like why he was crying so much(he was 2, and she had another one 6 month), and called him a crybaby, to another friend that mabe her child has ADHD because of all is energi etc(of course I apologized and even sometimes if I see them now), only becuz now I know how it is to have kids and how kids are crying because of their teeth growing, illnesses, to much energi etc.
we tend to critiseze way to much and forget about ourself. And I have notice that things U say tends to come back one way in or the other.
Example when my daughter was born a d was 8 months my SIL use to tell me that her kids use to walk and crawl early and my daughter was slow and it was because she was a litle cubby( she was normal for her age, and lost alot when she starter to crawl, I love cubby babies). Funny thing was that she gave birth 8 months after me and her daughter was even crawling and walking later then my child. Even her teeth came out very late and still have only feew 4-6 teeth(her daughter is 1 and 4 month now), while my daughter got almost all her teeth out by the age of 1 and 6 month. Not saying these things to brag, just the thing she use to say use to hurt me alot and thing my child was very late in development when she was actually doing very well.
Thing she use to say to me has actually happend to her daughter. So yes be carefull kf what comes out of ur mouth. Not every thing U think is nice to say
backbiting is one of the worst thing a person can have and do.
If U dont like people backbiting U, then why are u doing the same to others...(just a saying). What others do and say is not ur business, and as they say" the one who backbite to U will backbite about U to".just saying not acusing u.
But I remamber when I wasnt married and lived with my friend and her kids for some months, I remamber I use to say silly things(careless and stupid times) about her kid...like why he was crying so much(he was 2, and she had another one 6 month), and called him a crybaby, to another friend that mabe her child has ADHD because of all is energi etc(of course I apologized and even sometimes if I see them now), only becuz now I know how it is to have kids and how kids are crying because of their teeth growing, illnesses, to much energi etc.
we tend to critiseze way to much and forget about ourself. And I have notice that things U say tends to come back one way in or the other.
Example when my daughter was born a d was 8 months my SIL use to tell me that her kids use to walk and crawl early and my daughter was slow and it was because she was a litle cubby( she was normal for her age, and lost alot when she starter to crawl, I love cubby babies). Funny thing was that she gave birth 8 months after me and her daughter was even crawling and walking later then my child. Even her teeth came out very late and still have only feew 4-6 teeth(her daughter is 1 and 4 month now), while my daughter got almost all her teeth out by the age of 1 and 6 month. Not saying these things to brag, just the thing she use to say use to hurt me alot and thing my child was very late in development when she was actually doing very well.
Thing she use to say to me has actually happend to her daughter. So yes be carefull kf what comes out of ur mouth. Not every thing U think is nice to say
I believe what comes around goes around...talk I got about people is just going to come back on you at one point in life. .as far as your baby goes you never know what your pay back so to speak will be. I talked bad about this girl and guy it was my husband family and she got pregnant and it was a mess well i was pregnant to and ended up miscarrying. I learned my lesson.
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