i was wondering

[BESONE]

Have any of u ladies fallen hands into an abusive man during ur pregnancy. Like did the spermdonor ever hit you or strangle you? And what did you do as a result of this and did he ever keep putting hands on you again after the first time or when the baby was born? Im really curiouse and well ive been in this situation and hes now in prison im thinking of pressing charges now. I still can i have up to a year but anyways yeah.i was wondering howd it go for the unfortunate ones who had to.go thru this as well.

[HappyMommyBear]

my ex..(father of my daughter) was very abusive..i stayed with him for two years and he treated me like an animal..he would curse me and beat me and even throw things at me.. then he'd rape me when he gets drunk so i got pregnant again..he never stopped beating me and one day punched me in the stomach..i had a miscarriage.. i went to the police and pressed charges.. even when i did that, he'd sometimes still bug me and tries to stalk me.. i had deleted my facebook, twitter, and all other social networking sites.. i changed my number several times and made sure my baby is away from him.. ive married and pregnant now..im having risky pregnancy though because of that miscarriage..

so yeah..i think you should press charges.. he does not deserve to live in this world because he has no respect towards other human being..

[jamie2464]

My mother was in that situation her boyfriend chocked her so mad while she was p.g my sister lost oxygent on one side of her brain and shes parrilized on her right side of her body....I mean this man was evil...and this incident happened in her 3rd trimester. ...no my mom never left him his in jail for child support. ...my sister is the youngest of his of his 16 kids....so his not coming out anytime soon since he never paid c.s before....I put a restraining order on him for my siblings and for my mother cuz she was too scared to do it..

[elvendork]

i haven't been in that situation, but I think you should press charges. otherwise he could come back and hurt you and the baby.  these situation tend to spiral downward unless action is taken.