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54 days since last period, negative tests

Hi, I'm hoping someone out there can help me or at least relate. I last came on my period on 21st Nov, it's now 14th Jan, that's 54 days! I've had two negative pregnancy tests, went to the doctor and their urine test was also negative. She didn't test my blood for pregnancy so am going back again on Friday to see another doctor. I have a lot of symptoms eg. Cramps, headaches, tiredness, painful breasts, lower back ache and out break of spots. My normal cycle is around 29-32 days. I've not been under any more stress than usual. My husband and I have been trying since march, and have sometimes wondered if all the symptoms can be in my head? I really don't think that can really be possible when the symptoms are so strong. Or is there a possibility I can be pregnant even though getting bfns? Would love to hear from anyone who's been in same situation but finally got a positive. Or if anyone has had similar issues but have had a diagnosis. Feel like I don't know my body anymore!! Please help!
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To be honest im thinking of postponing my appointment. But i will see if i get the guts to find out after trying for so many months a negetive blood test would just make me give up but you should go too are you having any early pregnancy symptoms ?
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Im in the same boat;im 54 days since the first day of my last menstrual period.i had 1 negative urine test at emergency room but still no AF yet;then have low blood pressure and i was dehydrated.i hope to get my BFP very soon baby dust to us all
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Headaches, backache, cramps, painful breasts, tiredness and have been feeling nautious yesterday and today. The thing is I don't know how much your mind can bring symptoms on! Plus they're all signs of af but have had the cramps for 4 weeks now! Off to doctors tomorrow again so will see. I know what you mean about trying for so long and then being told it's negative, it's heartbreaking but I can't go on like this! Am so emotional too!! I could cry anytime even when I'm happy... Really wierd! All the hormones I guess! Are you having anymore symptoms? I first went to doctors when I was 48 days since period, so perhaps you could wait until you're 50+ days like I am now? It is hard to be told it's negative and I probably will be again but you need to know for peace if mind. But only go when you're ready! And possibly take hubby?
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Definitely, just read your post. I hope you get the result you want. It's scary to go to the doctor esp if they tell you it's negative but you need to go, just make sure they do a blood test first off, wish I did! Let me know how you get on, will cross everything for you
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Well im in the same boat but everyone has recommended a blood test im going to see a doctor soon i havent been yet. So we can both hold hands and hope :-) if its any comfort
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