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TTC- have question and need some help

Hello Ladies- this will be my hubby and I, 4 month at TTC and need some help. The last two months we make sure to have sex during my fertile time and everything seems to be going okay. The last two months I start with spotting about 1 week before my period ( thinking it was implantation bleeding) and then about 2 -3 days after starting to spot I get my period "EARLY" my questions is, is it normal during TTC that your period gets out of whack? I am usually always 27-28 cycle and never have spotting so now my period comes early with spotting? any help from other ladies out there that might have or is going through same thing? I know I am only going on 4th month of trying just really want to have a baby and praying everything will work out.   I am 27, period always been normal, no other issues that I know of. Thank you for your input :)
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Thanks for all the tips-- I am not that worried yet just bummed every month I get the BFN but I will keep my fingers crossed and try not to stress over it and it will happen when it happens.
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They say it takes up to a year and most fertility drs won't see you unless it has been more than a year.  They out you through some testing at that point. If you had gone through fertility before then you don't wait the year again but since your only 27 I wouldn't worry about it yet.
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Thanks ladies. I know all the sites I come across talks about waiting at least 1 year before talking to your doctor about help. So I might try a few more months and I'll see where that might get me. I might try to also get one of those ovulation test and maybe i can pinpoint when I am ovulating due to my period being out of whack. Thank you again!!!
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Don't stress about and have fun ttc.... it took me 5 years then had my son... now ttc second.... and its been 2 1/2years... i just found out my cousin preg.... and she tried for 3 month.... just depend... and about period being out of wak.... I've been normal past 21/2
Until last month I was 4 days late and cycle lasted 1 day... I'm usually 5-7 days...  just add couple days  to ur fertile week... example... if u had a fertile u 7- 14....I would add 3 days earlier 3 days later... 4 - 17...u can also track ur temp check when ur ovulating...
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Im 26 and understand where you are coming from. My ex husband and I were trying and three years passed and nothing and I was so stressed about it and upset and so discouraged (which im happy I didnt have any with him). I later remarried and my husband now and I tried for a year and still nothing. I didnt get discouraged this time around but yet made an appt at a fertility clinic since we both really wanted a baby together. A month before my appt I received a call from my dr saying my blood test showed I was pregnant. I am now 36 weeks and we are expecting a healthy girl. Needless to say it took me four years but maybe you can get that head start and talk to your doctor. I was thinking there was something wrong with me but there wasnt. It just took a while. With my husband now I did start to take prenatals before the pregnancy and started to eat healthier. I wasnt worried about excercise because im in the military. I wish you the best of luck though. I would suggest starting with your doctor though. Only she can guide you the best.
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