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What are the chances of me becoming pregnant? Please help!!

Hello there! So basically, I am a virgin. About two days after my period ended, my boyfriend and I were fooling around and, naked, I ended up sitting on his penis. Now, I was on the shaft (mostly) and if the head touched the OUTSIDE of my vagina, it was only for a second. The penis was flat
And not angled towards my vagina upwards. We were only in this position for about a minute, however he was rubbing against me. He never entered me. He did not ejaculate at all, and he tells me he didn’t precum(although how can he really tell). I know that precum can contain sperm, but he didn’t ejaculate  that day because of travel. We did some oral, but he never ejaculation, I’m not sure how close he got though. Without ejacularjon, how likely would it be for him to have sperm in his precum? Even with oral prior? Anyway, like I said, he never entered me. Period wise, I have a history of being irregular however, for the past two months I’ve gotten it consistently. At this time, my period had ended two days prior (About). It was a pretty normal period, 7 days or so (maybe longer, I can’t recall how long it was until I officially stopped bleeding). Anyway, according to a tracker, I would start ovulation/being fertile about 2 days later. I don’t know how accurate this could be, considering I have been irregular, but on that day I did start getting white discharge, which is normal. However, there was a little brown color in some discharge (one time!!) and light cramping for the first day or so, which scares me. However, I doubt symptoms of pregnancy would show that fast anyway, so I think it was my mind playing tricks on me maybe. I have diagnosed ocd and my period won’t come until the end of August, and I know if the obsessive thoughts/ anxiety doesn’t tone down, I’ll miss the period simply because of stress. However, I don’t want to wait this long to see if I get it Does anyone think that, in my case, pregnancy is very likely? Thank you for any answers or help! It would greatly help ease my mind and maybe ensure that I get my period and not miss it.
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Hello! Please set your mind at ease. You are not pregnant. It is extremely rare for pre-ejaculate to contain any sperm at all, and if it does, the sperm is usually dead. While there is technically a theoretical risk of pregnancy if he did ejaculate near the opening of your vagina, it would still be statistically very unlikely that a live sperm would be able to find its way to your egg. Since he did not ejaculate, you are not pregnant. Please set your mind at ease. Spotting, discharge, and cramping are all normal and have many causes. It does sound like you are experimenting and beginning to engage in some potential situations that could put you at risk for pregnancy as well as sexually transmitted infections and/or diseases. For your peace of mind, I would encourage you to pick up some condoms. You can also find a health clinic, such as planned parenthood, that could prescribe you birth control in addition to the use of condoms. Be well and take care!
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Thank you so so much! This really helped me.  Yes, we agreed that if we ever did it again, he would wear a condom However, I know doing these things are risky because would thing could lead to another and he could enter me. Therefore I think we will hold off for a bit and wait for me to get birth control. I however, am not looking to have sex until a year into the relationship, and we aren’t quite there yet. So we probably will leave this kind of experimentation for later, we just got carried away! But again , thank you so much! After this happened I started researching and panicking, some people on the internet are quite harsh and/or I would read conflicting answers. This did ease my mind a lot and I’ll try not to think about it with such worry. Thank you for taking the time!
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Sorry for any spelling errors... for some reason it’s hard for me to type in these boxes with auto correct!!
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