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1912723 tn?1322194807

help me am i preggy?

i had my menstruation last august 11, my boyfriend and i had sex in august27 i had a home pregnancy test sept17and i had a period in sept 18 just the next morning. in the month of october menstruation was just reddish/blackish spots in my underware in the month of oct for few days.. without sex just masterbating bcoz my boyfriend is away but i am not inserting my finger inside mine.. and we had sex in the 27th day of oct with pull out method. and this nov i didint have my period yet, i remember in the first wek of nov just spotting again and my boyfriend and i had sex in nov 10, 16, 17, 18, 21, 23.. with same method as always, since june.. and i remember there are times when we are having sex  when he feels like he is coming, he pulls out and the *** imeediately comes out of his penis.. and when im telling him what if he didnt pull his penis early.. he is always telling me that he controled it and he knows what he is doing.. please help me, i dont know why my period is like that, and i think im stressed because my pimples are coming out and usually i have period every month but the interval of days is not fix.. could i possibly be preggy? helpp mee  please.
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1194973 tn?1385503904
If you had a true period, then no you would not be pregnant. However if you're still having urination problems you need to be looked at by a doctor.

As for when you ovulate, the only ways to have any guess of when this occurs is by charting your BBT (basal body temperature) or by using OPK's (ovulation predictor kits) Even these are not full proof, and can take awhile before they tell you anything. It's best to just assume it will happen whenever and not take the chance. Sex isn't for fun and should not be taken lightly. Unless you actively protect yourself, you leave yourself open to infection and more. You're 20 years old, what would you do if you got pregnant or caught an STD--not all of them are curable and remain for the rest of your life. Does sex really mean that much more? Part of growing up and becoming an adult is being responsible in all aspects of your life. It's important to think about every act you do, because one instance of 'fun' could change your live forever.
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1912723 tn?1322194807
how to know when i am ovulating?

so im not pregnant? i didnt see a doctor yet ..
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1194973 tn?1385503904
There is NO safe time for unprotected sex. You don't know when you ovulate, and without that we can't tell you anything. Sperm can survive for 5 days, and you don't have to have sex the day you ovulate to get pregnant. The short answer is, don't have unprotected sex unless trying to have a baby. Unless your friend is, her and her partner are being extremely foolish and are playing with fire.

If you had a period, no you would not be pregnant. Have you seen a doctor yet?
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1912723 tn?1322194807
next time we will not use that again.is it true that 1week a before and after menstruation is safe? coz i have a friend, her bf ejaculate inside her and she dont get pregnant
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1912723 tn?1322194807
i just had my period.. im not pregnant, right?
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1194973 tn?1385503904
Preventative treatment works far better. If this progresses and you're hospitalized, the $14,000 hospital bill is nothing to the $100 doctor bill you can pay. Your health should not have a price tag on it.
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It's not true that you can't get pregnant from pre-*** I'm almost eight weeks pregnant using the pull out method. So there's the proof the first little soilders can martch just like the rest of them!
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1912723 tn?1322194807
thats a problem also..
it is expensive for me to see a doctor, thats why i will just rely to the pregnancy test..
im just a clollege student and i cant tell this to my mother, bcoz we cant also afford to..

i hope i am not pregnant.. ill wait for two weeks to take a pregnancy test..
i also have a history of kidney inspection when i was in pre-school..
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1194973 tn?1385503904
You need to see a doctor. The medicine has to ALL be completely taken, even if you feel better. If you don't, you can make the infection more resistant to the medicine and make it that much harder to get rid of. You never stop taking anything without a doctor's approval. When you see them you can also be tested for pregnancy. There can be a lot of things causing you to not have one, but first you need to see about getting what you do know about treated. UTI's are dangerous when left untreated. I had one last May that I didn't know about (didn't have any signs) and it went into my kidney's and I ended up hospitalized for a week extremely ill.
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1912723 tn?1322194807
no, i didnt finish my medication for UTI..
if its not menstration. what was that then??

so i didnt have my menstration for the month of october and november if the spots of blood are not period???
becoz my last sex before that blood spots happen is oct27, and at the month of september i didnt have sex..
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1194973 tn?1385503904
Did you completely finish taking the medication you had for a UTI? Pregnancy doesn't cause pain when urinating, as the two are not at all connected.

Spots of blood are not a menstrual cycle. An average one lasts anywhere from 2-7 days, though this can vary from month to month. I've had one last for 6, while another last for 3.
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1912723 tn?1322194807
thanks again for your reply, i hope we keep on communicating here..
yes, i had a UTI, and i stopped medicating..
last two motnhs when i urinate it has blood, but right now there is no blood but it really hurts when i urinate especially in the last drop..

my bad, im not counting my menstrual cycle.. but tha last time i count 2 months ago.. this is my date of menstration august 11 and sept 18.. and oct20 my period is just i see reddish spots in my undies, tht lasts for 3-5days. and it happend again in nov2, and only spotting in 2-3 days it even stained  my stockings.. is that a menstuation??? right i dont have a heavy menstruation for 2 months.. December is coming, i hope i have period, so im not pregnant.. :(

i become irresponsible, i have to finish my college first.. :((
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1194973 tn?1385503904
No, this is not true. This is why it's called pre-ejaculation--there's just not as much. I could list dozens of women who got pregnant off the supposed pre-ejaculation that doesn't contain sperm. I read somewhere else you were saying you have pain and blood when you urinate. Have you considered seeing a doctor? That's a strong sign of infection, namely a UTI.

A menstrual cycle is the bleeding a female will get every month or so. An average cycle is 28 days, but can vary to every 24-40 days. For example, my cycle is every 30-31 days.
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1912723 tn?1322194807
ill wait for your reply
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1912723 tn?1322194807
i have no idea if when will be my next period.. the reddish spot in my undies. s that considered as menstration? bcoz for the last two months that is just what happend
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1912723 tn?1322194807
i have read a while ago there is no sperm in pre ***. is that true?
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1194973 tn?1385503904
Two weeks after you last had sex it will be accurate, or waiting until your next period is due.
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1912723 tn?1322194807
i appreciate your reply.. but we just have sex last wednesday when will i can get a pregnancy test?
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1194973 tn?1385503904
Yes you can. You're being extremely irresponsible by relying on the pull out method. It is NOT birth control is any way, shape or form. He does not have to ejaculate in you, pre-ejaculation is always present when a male is aroused and WILL get you pregnant. You need to take a pregnancy test. I suggest you both look into condoms and birth control, unless you're trying to get yourself pregnant.
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