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Due in two days. if ONE more person...

Says to me things like. "Youve had it easy" or "it could be August hot and humid" Or "just wait untill..." Seriously! !! Dont ask how I am and then when I say im tired or miserable or so ready to have this baby, belittle my feelings with comments like above! Ugh! Or when I complained about going to the hospital at 5:30 am on the 30th for a c section and surgery at 7:30am, someone actually said to me. "You only have to sit there for two hours???" "Try sitting there ALL day in labor! Then you can complain " I'm so over peoples comments! Thank god for my loving,understanding hubby!
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Lol so glad I'm not the only one. And thank you for the well wishes!
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I live it how people will say toe aawwww your pregnant...iI almost say no I'm Just fat. I love it when they say your about to pop how long left...as I'm 2 days over due I just say 2 days ago.

I'm so ready for this little one to make an appearance considering early labour started over an week ago for me and all I can do is sit it out...
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I have been in early labor since thursday. Lots of pain, pressure and contractions. I have now been contracting every 5 min for close to 24 hours. People keep asking how are you feeling. I respond it hurts and I'm uncomfortable.  If I hear one more time "you think your in pain now wait till labor" I can not be held responsible for my actions. I get the pain gets worse. I got an epideral early on last pregnancy so I don't really know how bad it can get. But jeez can you at least validate that yes this hurts. My mom has been the worst.
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I'm totally with you there. I got so frustrated when people would ask me how I am and when I responded with saying I was tired I'd always get "just wait until the baby is here." Like don't ask me if you're just going to come back with some sort of stupid remark.

I hope your csection goes well. I had an unplanned one on the 13th. My recovery hasn't been too bad but the first week was rough.
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