Is this relationship over?

[loveaffair]

Hello!

I am going through a relationship issue and I cannot control my emotions. I am almost 7 months pregnant with my first baby. Last night my boyfriend came at 4am after drinking with his friends. It's not the first time he comes so late. I could not sleep all night and in the morning I've seen a girl texting him. I was furious and started screaming at him to leave and threw away things at him. I hate myself for this but I could not control it. We don't have sex for a long time and he never hugs or kisses me. I asked him then it's over between us. He said that it's not a big loss. I know it's over even if there is no other girl..I am scared being alone during labor and I am scared my baby girl will never forgive me for not keeping the relationship with her father...

Has anyone been in such a situation? How did you survive?

[bricegurl]

I'm going through kinda the same. My boyfriend doesn't go out drinking with friends or anything but has a little minute phone that every time I pick it up has a new girl he is texting... This is my first baby and I'm 7 months pregnate with our little girl.. I kinda turn my head and I know I shouldn't but I am scared about my delivery I'm scared to be alone. Even though we are together he says he won't be in the room... He doesn't hold me or kiss me like he used to... But he says its because its gotten old.. And he don't need to all the time. I love my man I really do... But I'm what to do. If turning my head to the situation is what's best or not. I don't want my daughter without a father.. But I don't wana be insecure every time he leaves the house. And what happens when she comes and I can't keep up with him cause I have to be home with her... I just don't know

[loveaffair]

I am sorry to hear that..I feel your pain. :( it's going to be fine eventually, please believe. I just don't understand why men (or even better say human beings) do that in this delicate stage of our lives? Friends don't leave like that but boyfriend/husband can..it doesn't fit in my head...it just feels so wrong on a human level.

[lucie27]

Your child won't hate you for staying in a relationship where you was being treated badly and cheated on she will respect you for being a strong woman who didn't take shlt it will be hard to begin with but once you get in s routine you will be fine. And you won't be alone during labour as the midwives are great. And you could always find a difference birthing partner.

[Alexgirl]

Stay strong . God has greater plans for u . Remember he doesnt put n e thing in our path that we cant handle . U don't deserve n e 1 like that . Ur baby will understand when the time comes . I'm sure she dont want her mom getting hurt in n e way by n e man . Now don't b scared all will come out well when ur baby is ready 2 enter this world . U don't only have family to stand by you but u also have the big man upstairs . Prayers gng ur way hunn ... I promise all will b better .

[gorgeousdiamond70]

Haven't been in situation but I do know that God will keep you threw it all, don't stress your self honey YES crying is ok I know it hurts but stay humble I promise you people reap what they so. What goes around come back around! God will lead u don't when u get angry just breath and tell your self you'll be ok! Any guy that dosent find beauty in you carrying him child ain't no way he'll ever respect u or u baby! Be encouraged I'm here if u need to talk Hun!

[gorgeousdiamond70]

Haven't been in situation but I do know that God will keep you threw it all, don't stress your self honey YES crying is ok I know it hurts but stay humble I promise you people reap what they so. What goes around come back around! God will lead u don't when u get angry just breath and tell your self you'll be ok! Any guy that dosent find beauty in you carrying him child ain't no way he'll ever respect u or u baby! Be encouraged I'm here if u need to talk Hun!

[loveaffair]

Thank you for your supportive reply!