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1330108 tn?1333677304

Getting lucky

Anyone getting lucky in the bedroom?  Any tips for those of us still with our legs crossed or afraid it will hurt?
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1293887 tn?1332702847
I am in the sameboat I would have to have sex to fall pregnant.  hubby had a vasectomy so im not doing anything till we get the all clear from that
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1345697 tn?1430619021
We were going to skip BC but OB and RE said I needed to wait a full year before getting pregnant (like that could happen) so I started BC. Then I noticed a small drop in milk production and since BC was only change, I decided not to take them any longer. Of course we'd actually have to have sex to be at risk of getting pregnant. HA!
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1328636 tn?1389367392
No birth control here, either...same reasons as Sun...not to mention my age! :)
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1328636 tn?1389367392
CONGRATULATIONS Sun!  :)  We didn't need any lube and I was sooooo glad because I hated hearing that just about every woman will need it post-pregnancy, especially while breastfeeding.  PHEW!
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1124862 tn?1303850973
omg thats such a relief!! i wish i remembered when the last time was... lol... i think its been close to 2 weeks ill probly get it tomorrow, but then again i've gotten 2 false positives before so i will do it just to calm my nerves but will def have to see a doc about it if af doesnt show soon... and thats awesome thinking... I would loveee to have my kids really close together so this would be good except for the deployment but family has other thoughts... i havent finished school so they think its better to wait but then again my mom went to school when she was 30 some so why not me?? i mean its not ideal and it goes against the norms of society but who cares right?

I am glad you finally got some!! lol the first time for me didnt last too long either he was all for it but i wasnt confortable so he got his but none for me ...
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1330108 tn?1333677304
AF isn't regular when first arriving so I've been told so don't panic yet but maybe pee on a stick two weeks after last time you played?

No bc here. Took 34 months to get Ellie and thousands of dollars in meds and such so unlikely it will happen but would welcome it. Though I'm not yet ready...  But YES FINALLY GOT SOME!!'. OMG it was awesome. Lasted like 5 min only but it rocked. Only slightly sore but used a LOT of lube lol
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1124862 tn?1303850973
roxy NO!! i have been really bad about going back to the doctor...we moved when she was 4 weeks and now need to go through going to a new gen practitioner and then get a referral to a gyn (ughh tricare) so i can get some bc but now i am moving again since hubby is deploying so ill just wait till i get to miami to look for a doc... anyways.. im actually getting really nervous because af showed up 8 weeks after birth on april 8th and im still waiting on her to show her face again!! even though i would love another baby, and we do want them to be close in age, this is really not the time with hubby deploying and all...
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1345697 tn?1430619021
We passed our year mark a month ago and have another week to go most likely. Neither of us wanted to have sex until we moved the bassinet out and that's happening next weekend. We shall see how it goes. Hubby just started talking about it yesterday so I was pleasantly surprised.

Sun--- did ya get the baby to sleep and get some action last night?
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1320677 tn?1305757368
so far its been up to 3 times since the doc gave me the green light. lol the first time was nice. for some reason the 2nd time hurt, and i was just freaking out. so we stoped.lol (sorry hubby!)
the third time this past sunday..... was amazing!!!!!! lol sorry to much info!!! lol
its just been such a long time that im actually happy about it. lol


Are you girls on birth control????
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1124862 tn?1303850973
me, me, me, me!!! i feel like everything i wear looks bad... i think i need a new closet so i can feel pretty again... i was 135 pre pregnancy but was trying to lose weight i am only 5'0" so even a couple of pounds really make a difference in how i look... i am at 130 now but still have a little bit of belly fat left from pregnancy that i feel and urge to get rid of but dont really get the motivation to do something about it.. i think its because I have no help with the baby we dont know anyone where we live now and its hard to tell hubby here take the baby imma go work out, specially since he leaves at 530 am and gets home close to 6pm and from then till bedtime is the only time we have together, other than the weekends and with him being close to deploying i think working out can wait... :( i do wanna lose teh weight though..
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1346146 tn?1299360497
We have done it twice but no pain.  My problem is I just am not in the mood ever.  I am just feeling not sexy or attractive at all.  I am almost down to my pre pregnancy weight but I just feel like a troll for some reason.  Anyone in the same boat??
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1330108 tn?1333677304
Condoms feel so strange when you are used to not using them arent they?  I'm hoping to get lucky tonight but I've been rocking Ellie and trying to get her to sleep for two freakin hours
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1293887 tn?1332702847
I am pretty poor as well.  My baby girl is 11 weeks old and I have only done it twice since she was born.  My hubby just had a vasectomy and to be honest I am too scared to do it incase I fall pregnant again.  We've decided to wait for the all clear check with this little men before we do it again.  We are really bad with condoms and falling pregnant would be a nightmare.  The two times we did do it were just like normal for me :)
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1124862 tn?1303850973
lol... we waited only 6 weeks and it has been pretty awkward... the first time it hurt, then everyother time since it just hasnt been the same,... lol.. i thought i was the only one with problems !!! glad to know im not alone!!
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1370267 tn?1498881607
Well when I tried for the first time it did hurt, it felt like it was my first time ever. We recently tried again but I still don't know if it was my nerves thinking it was going to hurt, or somethying else but it felt awkward. It wasn't how I remembered it lol. I guess I have to learn to relax I guess...  
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1328636 tn?1389367392
First time in over a year last night!!! Hooray for me!!!  Didn't hurt at all, but wasn't the greatest we've ever had, either - felt a little strange after all this time.  Guess we're both just out of practice. :)
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