Back to back babies and early dialation

[smallfry23]

Anyone have back to back babies? My littles ones will be 13 months apart. Im due in 21 more days feb 17th. I got checked today at 37 weeks and she let me know my cervix is extreamly soft and im dialated almost 3. How soon did you all have ur babies etc? I was induced with both my first bec i wasbt doing much on my own. I nvr dialated this early before. Any thoughts and what not? Thanks!

[xcitedmommy11]

That's good to know! I am way more relaxed with my current doctor.

[smallfry23]

My dr isnpretty relaxed she normally just sits kn the bottom of my bed and lets it all happen she doesnt get serious with my first a bot she tooknhis hair and made a mohawk when he was crowning lol shes great i didnt get stitches witm him ethr 7.5 pounds. I think the more at home and relaxed ubfeel with ur dr the better the labor goes. Im very at ease with my dr.

[xcitedmommy11]

Oh wow! My first was 7.7 but I had third degree tearing because of my stupid doctor making me push was to fast and hard...I'm definitely not making that mistAke again and my new doc agrees thank goodness lol

[smallfry23]

They induced me with my first two bec with both i was 3cm till my due date so my dr induced me three days before with my first and 3 days after with my second, with my second i did start normal labor when we were otw to be induced so that was cool.this time i let them know to set me a date for 16-18th bec im due the 17th. She will be watching this baby though closely bec my second was 9.1 pounds and even though i didnt get stitches etc she did almost get stuck

[xcitedmommy11]

I am. Ours will be about 15 months apart. With my first I was 2cm dilated for like 3 weeks and 4cm dilated for 4 days! I was induced at 39 weeks which I regret. I know it's hard but I definitely think it's best to let baby come when they are good and ready. I'm glad that my new doc doesn't check every time I'm in there so I honestly don't know where I'm at right now...It's kind of fun this way. It's going to be a total surprise when I do go into labor.