Honesty vent

[DiamondBee]

I am scared guys. I have a beautiful 14 month old son and I believe I am pregnant again. Wow. Double strollers. Double crying. Double trouble. I'm just nervous. One is hard but 2? I should've been more safe. How could I have sex with his dad when he is already a dead beat and now I'm pregnant again..my son is a little violent. He scratches and hits. Hit my newborn nice today and keeps bumping into my stomach. I feel like if I AM pregnant he'll make me miscarry. What to do what to do

[luckycharm317]

I promise it'll all be worth it at the end I'm very scared too I have a 7month old baby and just found out I'm pregnant again yesterday and aside from that I gave a 6 year old and a 4 year old so it's really tough but when you see them growing and their first steps and all that it makes you forget everything you've struggled through goodluck❤

[2under28months]

Hi Diamondbee,

It may not be easy but it will be worth it.  Hang in there. This is a great time to begin to teach your son to be gentle so not only is he safe with the baby now but also when the baby is born.

I have a 20 month old and am expecting our second as well. When he does something that he isn't supposed to, I immediately put him in his crib (where he is safe - and take out any comfort/ play items so he realizes that isn't something he likes) for 1 minute and walk away.  When I get him up I explain to him that he has to be gentle (or whatever the offense). Hug him and get him up.  

[DiamondBee]

Niece