Someone to talk to?

[cyncyn1123]

My BF of 2 years left me last month because my landlord asked me to get rid of a dog we had for 2 weeks (he was a good dog trained and loveable) I didn't think it would be a problem getting him all my neighbors have dogs but he was a pitbull... Anyways I gave the dog to my uncle (good home) And the BF flipped punched my car light out called me a ***** went outside up to girls asking how much money they want to beat me up ( he knows I'm pregnant btw) and I can keep going on about all the hurtfull things he said... I told him to pack and go which he did ... He's around whenever I need him and he apologized said he wanted to go to counseling .... But every time he gets mad he throws the dog in my face and says don't talk to me unless Ur gettin the dog back or if its about my kid... Ugh then he's ok again when he cools off Im really hurt and no longer know what to do eve always been able to fix our problems but this time it seems impossible ... Idk what to do anymore...

[KTowne]

Honestly, if you have feeling this strong and want to stay together, you NEED to make him go to counseling, or it will not work out, at all. If you want a long term, forever kind of relationship, make him go to counseling, if you want a temporary fix, don't make him do anything, but it will go back to this! My parents are split, and I never want that for my son, but some parents are better parents apart, and I'm just fine, married happily and raising our son, with another on the way, with a LOT of hard work!! You need to put your foot down!

[cyncyn1123]

We've always had our arguements but he's never went this low before I never seen this side of him ... And the worse part it was over a dog that was in our life for 2 weeks ... I understand people get attatched but I didn't want to jeopardize are home  ... Ugh we don't deserve to be treated this way.. but for me its just so hard to walk away when feelings are there... I grew up with both of my parents they been together for 23 years ill be 21 in Nov. And I really thought we were gonna be that way also I don't want my kid to watch dad come and go as he pleases

[KTowne]

I agree with Jazzy, NO sane boyfriend will try to hire someone to beat their girlfriend up, pregnant or NOT. I would say get him out of your life, if he wants to go through counseling on his own, anger management, etc, and PROVES he changes, and gets your trust back, then do it, otherwise, it's not worth it hun, I'm sorry you have to go through that!!

Jazzy, you also should talk to your boyfriend, you don't want your child growing up with screaming and yelling, and you certainly don't want your daughter thinking this is how a man treats a woman, and you don't want your son treating his wife that way, I would crack down on him too!!

You are strong ladies, don't put up with it, and stand your ground!!

[Jazzylovesgato]

Wow he shudnt be putting u threw all tht stress. Maybe u guys shud try counseling maybe tht wud be a good thing. Im kinda on the same situation he calls me h*e b***h all the names. And he always tell me wen we argue dnt talk to me unless its about baby. Bt we gotta be stronger not let them hurt us. Wen we hurt our babies hurt. Everything we feel they feel. If anything u can talk to me I knw wht its like feeling tht ur alone. Good luck!