so alone..

[zoey010513]

Hey ladies. no question here just looking to vent and take in any advice or whatever...
im 24wk(6months), BD and i have had issues for awhile but ive always tried to stay strong & make it work anyway. basically he just refuses to grow up & take responsibility in his life. he would rather go out and party than be around me or work on getting our own place. we were living in a house with 8 people total(party house). He lies and just cant ever do the right thing. anyway last night was the last straw for me, he broke yet another promise to me so i packed all my stuff and left him. its sooo hard cuz all i want is for things to work out. i feel so alone and abandoned by him. that me and our daughter arent good enough for him...blahh anyway just feelin pretty down right now.

[zoey010513]

thanks ladies =) Im still having a rough time, just keepin busy and hoping for the best. Hope it all gets easier with time. And laylo_seeds, your right, in a couple of months, we'll be happy! Hope things work out for us though!

[laylo_seeds]

Im going through the same thing right now. I hope that they're just freaking out, but you never know. Just do what you can for you and the baby :) it does suck doing it alone, but in a.couple of months we will be the happiest people on earth.

[KTowne]

I agree, if he cares enough, it will work out. He'll see what he's missing out on and doing wrong, if not, then it's better he made it clear now than when you have your little one here.I hope things work out for you hun, and they will either way!

[crstl11]

If he cares he will come around...if not then u are probably better. Your right u have to think about you and the baby and he needs to grow up.

[zoey010513]

It hurts that ill be in this alone now. he wont be there to feel her kick, or ask me how im feeling, or at doctor appts. , or helping pick baby stuff out. who knows if hell even be there for her birth, or any of her firsts. Wow this really *****. but i know its what i have to do to keep me and my daughter in a safe place..i just hope he comes around and realizes whats more important