Last year - 12 cycles ago exactly, I became pregnant. This was our first pregnancy. 10 weeks later I was told that there was no heartbeat and the pregnancy was not viable (went in 3 x's over 2 weeks to reach determination). I received a D&C due to a missed miscarriage.
We are pregnant again (yea!) and I have to admit that this pregnancy has been heavily weighted by our past experience. Every day I doubt the pregnancy, and today is the day the fetus stopped developing last time.
Miscarriages are a cruel joke, missed miscarriages included. A time of joy being shadowed in doubt and frustration is, well frustrating. I am trying to remain positive, reminding myself that this is not the last time, my body has no memory of what happened last year, and I am going to go to term - but the doubt is there.
I am lucky to have an OB that is not allowing my obsessive nature to manifest. He reminds me that I am having a normal pregnancy, everything looks good.
Now if I could just keep that in mind at 2 am. . .
Thanks for listening and HAPPY AND HEALTHY pregnancy to you!