Very well!! I'm the exact same way!!! I freak out when someone raises their voice, especially at me. I think everyone has gotten it at this point, though, because I either make my mother or my boyfriend hug me until I'm done crying, so no one has really raised their voice around me. But when they did. Wooh. Not good.
I work at a high school and we had a drunk driving simulation called "Every 15 minutes" where they have a mock accident and 2 students "die". Then they pull a different student from class every 15 minutes throughout the day to simulate the statistic of a drunk driver killing someone every 15 minutes. At the end of the day they have a mock funeral for the students who "died". I had to leave! It was so overwhelming!
Btw- we are having a Sophia join our family too!