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HEARTBROKEN *type long soo sorry i have nobody else*

I knew this boy since I was pretty young basically you could say we grew up together. We started dating back in 2012 I would say he was in love with me like he would do anything in his power to make sure im good...long story short I left him for someone else..wasn't the brightest idea because the person I left him for was abusive every nightto the point where I couldn't go to school my face was so swollen from the night befor..I stayed *lived* with him for 3 years until I finally got the balls to leave. Whice was March 2015.. june 2015 I went to see the boy that I grew up with and within the one night i was with him I became pregnant. In the back of my mind I honeslty think it was a blessing after all that I been through within those years ....but now it's like he keep throwing it in my face what I did to him,and that it was my fault because that who I left him for...it really hurt sop bad n like he haven't told any bodyy that he about to have a kid not even his mother..and in honestly heart broken but at the same time I don't want my family to see because they all would just be like "that's what men do" or "we all knew this Was coming " and that hurts even more!! Idk what to do... Im due March 7th!!!
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God is with you both. Stay positive
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Proud of you for getting out of a abusive relationship! Not sure what to say about his reaction.the past is the past ,you can't change how u desided to live it only how you live it now.I know the feeling when people judge and blame u on your past,that's not where u are now and no matter what he says be proud u aren't there now
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Oh honey, I am so sorry. I am so very proud of you for leaving that abusive situation.  It's extremely difficult.  You proved to yourself how strong you are. What the guy from the past that's in your life now is also abusive though. Have you told him how that makes you feel? Do you think couples therapy would help? That's my 2 recommendations.
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